hurt your feelings,i dont know for whatever reasons,what would you do to overcome it?They tend to critises you too,but you cant bear with it but then you dont wan to create a chaos too....
2007-01-07 20:29:26 · 13 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
avoid them until i calm down and stop being angry and then confront them as to why they did what they did.
2007-01-07 20:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by AliasPlease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can't ignore everyone whom is like this, exspecially when you live with them or they are constantly in your life. Sometimes conflict is necisary to stop the situation, just keep in mind that most people whom do this are either jelous or insecure of themselves in some way. If you can't ignore it, then attempt to resolve the matter in a calm, collected, peacful way. If this is going to bring on more abuse than you can handle or some form of physical abuse then remove yourself from the situation. If this is your husband and you have children remove the children from the situation alltogether, for this is how abusive people start ( by being in some form of abusive relationship)
2007-01-08 04:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by BURN180 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you've been a rug your whole life and hated it. Don't let anyone dictate how you feel about yourself, take responsibility for your feelings! Why do you let someone criticize you and not stand up for yourself? so you can play the role of a victim and always blame others for 'making you feel'. Bull crap! Take some classes on line for learning how to be assertive (not aggressive) and become the person you were meant to be, not someone elses responsibility to walk on egg shells or on you.
Good Luck sweet spirit, it's hard but you can do it!
2007-01-08 06:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can only do 2 things...either you listen to those critism and feel bad or make that critism a stepping stone or a pillar to make you a stronger person.
i understand your feeling of losing self-esteem or patience whenever they criticize you. sometimes it's better to keep silent to avoid further damage. let them criticize you and as long as you know where you stand, you'll be fine.
2007-01-08 04:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People hurt people, it's in our nature. It's up to if you are going to let it affect you or not. When a friend of mine hurts me it's in one ear and out the other. I know who I am, and I don't need anybody else to tell me any different.
2007-01-08 04:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by his angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
their just jealous. people who hurt other people are also insecure and very unhappy so they try to bring you down to their lowest of level. go to "daily motivator.com" and you'll find many inspiring positive phrases to help you overcome.
2007-01-08 04:36:23 · answer #6 · answered by prettypueo1812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would Stay Away From Them.
2007-01-08 04:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set boundaries and be clear what they are.
Insults and put downs are no fun.
By not making clear what you will and won't accept, you are leaving yourself open for much misery.
So make it clear. And mean it.
2007-01-08 04:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give a $hit... and live my life as real women live.
2007-01-08 04:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by babyyocca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is this person
i am asking to know how you would handle it
if it is your boss, you would obviously have to handle in different then if this person was your mother in law.
2007-01-08 04:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by karen g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋