My best friend and i had a conversation the other night and he was mentioning ot me in how much he wanted to get married to the love of his life but there was something stopping the both of them. She cares for him very deeply but she is not ready for the commitment of marriage because she feels she needs to finish college before which will be within 2 to 3 years they are currently 22 and the main question is should my best friend wait for her to finish or should they work something out he is a person that wants to get married soon
2007-01-07 18:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by latincowboy00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait. It will be worth it.
2007-01-07 18:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should let her wait. She is only 22, That is young, let her finish her schooling & get started with a career. There is plenty of time for marriage. If he loves her, he should respect that she wants to wait & that she's not ready. If they were to marry & she is not ready, they could be led to divorce.
Its best to wait. Take some time, no need for rushing it.
2007-01-08 02:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I had this issue. He wants to marry now, and I want to wait until after graduation. This is partly because we are in a distance relationship and that most likely cannot change until after graduation, and partly because I need time to mentally and emotionally prepare (and I think he does too). However, there shouldn't be anything stopping them from getting engaged now! That way, the commitment is there and they will have plenty of time to plan!
2007-01-08 02:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this woman is the love of his life, he will wait for her. Her plan of finishing college before getting married is a sensible one. He should respect her wishes and support her in her goals.
2007-01-08 02:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she feels that she needs to finish college first, best to give her the time. May be she is not even sure if this is the relationship that she really wants.
He may really want her and desire to hold her but it is best to see if she really wants him too or Else's, his heart will be broken later on. He can wait and then see what happens.
2007-01-08 04:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really loves her then he will respect her decision and wait until she is ready. Me and my bf are goign through the same thing, I want to wait until I finish college and he wants to get married sooner but since he really loves me he is willing to wait for whenever I am ready
2007-01-08 02:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Silvertones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait. if she gets dragged out of college that is a big change in her life and if they get married and it doesn't work out she may be down financially anyway. she would need something to fall back on.
2007-01-08 02:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Barbeaux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for it
a lot can happen in 2-3 years
2007-01-08 02:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by mintman16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She should definately finish school first. How about a long engagement?
2007-01-08 02:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by dottidal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't wait a few years how is he ever going to make it in a lifetime marriage...?
2007-01-08 02:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes get a digree or a job till your 24
2007-01-08 02:21:49 · answer #11 · answered by rachael b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋