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does time help everyone with emotional pain? to put everything behind them and to let it go? to let go of everything that has hurt them in the past? and to forget about their past mistakes and to forgive themselves and other people? is this true?

2007-01-07 18:10:59 · 13 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Social Science Psychology

13 answers

what time can do is dull the pain, but it will always be in the back of our heads, and it can come back any time, perhaps not as strong as before, but it will definitely come back..

It also depends on how big or serious the situation was.

2007-01-07 18:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjeansntee 4 · 1 0

100% Absolutely, genuinely, I would not lie to you, God knows it's true, YES!! And the best feeling I ever had was when I was able to finally forgive someone I hated for years. The other person might even have passed away or moved by the time you find forgiveness for them. Forgiveness lives in your heart and can weight your soul and spirit so far down. Revenge is Poison!! Unforgiveness weighs a TON!! I felt it fall right off me like it was a sack of rocks!! I have a feeling you know that. Tableau Rosa?
Rosse? whatever. <

2007-01-07 18:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0 0

Yes I think it's true. We all go trough emotional stuff in our lives at some point and it can be painful but in time we get over them. Its ok to forgive but not forget. I hear many times that forgiveness is a step to healing. So if you can forgive others and yourself then you can move on. I don't think we can ever forget. Just learn from our mistakes and remember not to do them again.

2007-01-07 18:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by smashingko 2 · 1 0

Everyone contains emotional anguish, however it is not anything that's voluntary, I do not consider. I consider it is anguish and unconsciousness associated in combination making it tough to entry. Enlightened folks make it sound so convenient and beauty why others have selected to stay in lack of knowledge, find it irresistible's a option! But I consider lifestyles is designed this manner given that if a man or woman might simply come to a decision to be enlightened and stop to reincarnate, there could be no human types for sub-human types to conform into, the entire major cognizance/unconsciousness could cave in and the production could be destroyed. Creation is impermanent besides and can ultimately be destroyed, however it may not be given that folks found out a idiot-evidence mystery to immediate liberation, unluckily.

2016-09-03 18:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by marentes 4 · 0 0

I have copied and pasted something I wrote for a member of my family that had some personal problems. I was able to write this because I once had some personal problems and could relate with him.

This is quite long and I wouldn't blame you if you passed and went on with the next answer. I hope you will bear with me and it will be of some help.

I call this, "THE GOOD, BAD, AND THE UGLY." .

The saying goes: Take time to smell the roses. I don’t know what is said about thinking, but I feel it is just as important to take some peaceful time (just for your self) to quietly relax and take time to THINK.

We seem to find the time to think about a problem or when something is not quite right, and rightly so. That is how we work out the problem, but we need to remember to look into our souls and find the good and remember to be fair with ourselves and those we are concerned about.

THINK! From this day on . . . I will go forward! There are the GOOD, BAD and the UGLY. Kick the bad and the ugly aside and go for the good. It won’t help to dwell on the bad and ugly. Look at it as though you lived and learned, and then
get on with life.

THINK! Reflect, ponder and recall good memories. Remember, even with the bad and ugly, there were good memories. Reflect, ponder, and recall the good memories. Think of the pleasant desirable qualities that we need to improve upon each and every day. Be kind and concerned for yourself and others.

THINK! Organize your life by using constructive planning and increasing your well being. Do what you have to do and do it to your best ability. You will soon find yourself kicking aside less and less of the bad and ugly, and be amazed by all the good memories to enjoy dwelling upon as you set aside some special time to THINK.

Know who you are, be true to yourself and by all means FORGIVE YOURSELF. Conduct yourself in a manner that can build good memories. You will thankfully wake up each morning and truly be able to say “I Love Life.”

2007-01-07 18:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 2 0

it is not always true for all people. some people forgive and forget easily, others keep the emotional pain so bottled-up that it makes them bitter in the long run. but then it all depends on the nature of wrongs inflicted and the ability of the person who is wronged to forgive the wrong-doer.

2007-01-07 18:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes, time can definitely heal emotional pain, but how much time it takes depends on how much pain you have experienced in the past. If it is a huge amount, then there is a possibility that you will never get over it. But time usually does help, as well as therapy if something is really bothering you.

2007-01-07 18:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by Corrida 5 · 1 1

Yes it is said "Time heals".
But if you the affected person it hurts a lot and even if you forgive them you are unable to forget every thing and harbour bitterness against them . I think we must pray for God's Grace because of this bitterness we may not go to heaven .

God will judge .

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2007-01-07 18:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mummy is not at home 4 · 0 0

Time is a moving thing, meaning, whether you like it or not time will pass. The phrase "time heals" is idiomatic because with the passing of time, we experience something that change our perceptions in life. So, it's not really time that heals but the passing of time which implies the happening of events. It's like asking a small child what's his or her ambition in life, then asking him or her again after a few years, then seeing later what he or she has become. Things will surely be different as time flies.

2007-01-07 19:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Willie Boy 5 · 0 0

people go through bad phases that only pass with time and experience, i think some of the painful things in your life are what builds your character, as long as it wasn't traumatic or damaging to you, i think you will probably work through your problems and with time and experience u'll find peace.

2007-01-07 18:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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