just trying to get my Sue back... any kind hearted and honest answers would be appreciated... thx
2007-01-07 18:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by Jason M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your Sue has to allow you to regain her trust. She has to 'allow' it. If she's not open to that, then move on as best as you can dear. peace.
2007-01-07 18:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny how we never think about how we will feel if we were to lose the person we are in love with. Unfortunately, I am a firm believer that trust is one of the hardest things you can try to recapture in a relationship/marriage. Once that bond is broken, it could take months, and perhaps years to get it back. Sometimes people never get it back. If something is worth having, it's supposed to be worth fighting for. So, my advice to you is not to waste time on someone or something that will never come back to you, but if you see a glimmer of hope, hold onto it and start building from there.
2007-01-08 01:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did to lose her in the first place and what her policy is for a break of trust. You can plead and beg all you want with words, but your best bet is action! You must show her how truly sorry and remorseful you are..............If you truly care about her and want her back, it's going to take a lot of effort and patience. Think about what you can do because only you know her best. Every woman is different. Let her know what you have realized through your mistake, reasons why you did it, acknowledge how you may have hurt her and make promises (and keep them) to never do it again. Good luck!!
2007-01-07 18:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being honest is the number one! Whatever it is that you have done. Showing her is the best way and it takes time to rebuild when you broken the trust it makes her wonder every time you gone and your not in touch with her. You have caused her great distress and only you can repair it. And you have to give her reassurance that whatever it was you done you will not do it again, and if you can't then it's best to let her be happy with someone else. Next time Tell us what you did, it helps.
2007-01-07 18:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by queenie one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to work double now bec trust will have to be proven over time again; no one knows how easy or difficult. But each and every act you make will determine if u can regain that trust back.
I would say, it will have to be doubly hard this second time around. Dont u think so too?
2007-01-07 18:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my husband of 18 yrs..only for 2 months but i was with another man. he forgave me but i had to work on the trust issue. You have to show them everyday that they are all that matters and that you hurt because of what you put them through. Make them feel loved every second and do special little things to show u care, it takes time hun but in the end it will work out if your loved enough back
2007-01-07 18:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that is very hard to do. All you can do is level with her and ask her forgiveness and tell her how much she means to you. Tell her you would never betray her trust again (but only tell her that if you know you are capable of keeping that promise). Treat her lovingly forever if she comes back to you. That's a hard one so I wish you lots of luck and blessings.
2007-01-07 18:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guy did me dirty & eventhough i forgave him i cant seem to forget. its been really hard but i am trying.Still it is very hard 4 me to believe anything he says even if it is something that doesnt matter.I think that scar in our relationship is always going to be there & im only waiting to see what happens as time goes by. just be honest with her from now on & show her what great a man u r but that doesnt guarantee anything.good luck!
2007-01-07 18:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by morenita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no, depends what you have done, but if it's to do with cheating then I don't think it's possible because the thought of it will always be on her mind, You can forgive, but never forget!
2007-01-07 18:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jason you really need to give more details of what happened for you to lose this relationship. You don't give your age, whether you are married, if you have children, what you did. It is hard for someone to try and help you with an issue with so little information to go on. Please repeat the question if you can. Thanks.
2007-01-07 18:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋