i am 6 months pregnant and have lost my sex drive. unfortionantly, my boyfriend has not, he's still horney 24/7 (litterally). he doesnt make me, but if i dont, he gets really grumpy and moody. i try to keep him happy, and have sex twice a week. but thats still not enough for him, and too much for me.
and for anyone about to lecture about getting married, we will after the baby is born for the sake of insurance. trust me, we have it all planned out, so plz spare me of that lecture.
2007-01-07 18:07:17 · 8 answers · asked by March Mommie 07 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That's completely normal, your body is going thru alot of chemical changes. What's he gonna do after the baby is born and you HAVE to wait 8 weeks to have intercourse? And let me warn you now...sex with a baby in the house isn't going to be easy for a LONG time! I have a 22month old so I talk from experience. Funny how having alot of sex gets you a baby and having a baby gets you no sex! just relax, he'll adjust.
2007-01-07 18:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by south_lido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the first pregnancy is very hard and you feel that you are alone. I urge you to read a book and find more info from google. I suggest you to close your eyes and go along with him whenever you can. I know how you feel with a big ballon and it is getting hareder to walk around when the baby is 8-9 month. You just tell him do it quick and get over with. So far you did very well and want to make him happy. Congratulations and come back to let everyone knows.
2007-01-07 18:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this and it came back with a vengance after the baby was born. I mean I couldn't wait the 6 weeks and all. It's hard when everyone portrays pregnancy to be a wild time hormonally and sexually but really everyone is different.
2007-01-07 18:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by redebeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its enough that you trying from your side and its all about harmonal change inside your body which may be affecting the sex drive but let me suggest you that you offcourse can't go for having 24/7 sex. Best Luck.
2007-01-07 18:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Pramod J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use ur hand to jerk him off....!!! Or if u want him to enjoy a bit more use ur mouth on him. This would be a good time to practice how to deep throat....If u succeed then he would nt even ask ur for the real thing.
.....OR he will end up looking for sex somewhere else and expose himself to the dangers of STD & HIV (as he would be looking for quickies from people not wanting a long term relationship)
2007-01-07 18:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to learn to be patient. Losing your sex drive is normal, you are uncomfortable, feel fat and ugly, and not at all sexy. Unfortunately, once you have a child, you will feel even less like havingsex, since you are tired all the time, your boobs are sore from nursing, and you are having mood swings from hormones. Tell lover boy to grow up and stop asking.You will tell him when you want sex.
2007-01-07 18:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hit that 3rd trimester full-force, you will get your sex drive back !!
And he won't even know WHO you are !!
Enjoy it while you can, 'cuz after the little one arrives it's all but over.
2007-01-07 18:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by BigTip$ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe helping him masterbate is the answer. Tell him some five minute dirty story, jerk him off and after 10 mins your done till next time :)
2007-01-07 18:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by J&A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋