I took my husband back after 8yrs he left me I support mt kids and he doesn't help what am I to do .I work come in clean tend to kids all of it
2007-01-07 17:58:30 · 11 answers · asked by danielle_aka_shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not worth having him back. He doesn't understand that marriage is a partnership. You were better off without him. Be strong hang in there and soon a man that is a friend and a partner will come into your life. Good Luck. Stay strong.
2007-01-07 18:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have never put any responsibilities on your man earlier and even now he is not ready to take any responsibility. You must involve him and make use of the kids to help you, especially if you have a sweet little daughter. Possibly she can melt the heart of this man of yours, and he may start taking responsibility slowly. It is clear that you have not understood man. If you treat your man kindly and humanly, your man becomes irresponsible and useless. Treat him shabbily and cruelly and he will love you.
Best of Luck
2007-01-08 02:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save up money, move out, and leave him behind. Talk to a lawyer about the legal issues with the kids. Men don't change.
2007-01-08 02:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a strong woman, so in this situation dont expect anything from him.He had already left you before,so let life goes on as it was.
2007-01-08 02:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bec he is a dead beat to begin with and a dead beat like that woudl leave and come back and wishes the martyr wife will take him back. well, u took him back and he expects u to feed him all his life. watch and learn..... there is no way changing him; unless he is married to a woman whom he cannot live without and is dependent on him just like he is dependent on u.
2007-01-08 02:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why did you take him back? If you still have to do all of this you might as well be alone...Send him packing.......He is a big loser, no man that is a man would let his woman keep him and him set at home...
2007-01-08 02:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you take him back you left him for a reason you can't expect him to change
2007-01-08 02:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand yourself and why you took him back.
2007-01-08 03:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trade him in for a maid.. a nanny.. sugar daddy.. and a dildo.
2007-01-08 02:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ditzy20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not worth it.... dump him... find someone better... you seem to be a good person who deserves better....
2007-01-08 02:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ninja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋