How do i tell him?

Question

How do I tell my boyfriend Im pregnant with his baby, Do you think he will freak out?

For got to say im 15 and not married

Answer 1

Girl he got you there he better handle it!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear that you are 15 and pregnant. How old is your boyfriend? Before you tell him, you need to figure out what you want to do. Do you want to keep the baby, have an abortion, give it up for adoption? Are you able to support this child? Do you have a job? family support? Be clear on what you want for yourself and the baby. Then tell him. If he is your age, don't expect him to jump for joy. He probably will freak out. Neither one of you is ready for a baby. If he is over 18, he may be financially able to support it, but I have to question his stability if he's dating someone your age. Chances are he won't be around for long.

I would also encourage you to talk to your parent(s). This really isn't something you can handle yourself at 15. I hope you are in a situation where you have family or adult friends that you can go to for advice and help.

Your baby's needs must come first. First, make sure you are pregnant. Go to a doctor. Then tell your boyfriend. You have some choices to make.

Sorry if this sounds harsh. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 3

Well, I'm sure you know you must tell him. But your real question must be how. First you have to ask yourself, if you and him agreed on a form of birth control before you had sex. If you used birth control how do you think it failed. If for example it was your responsibility to be on the pill you should explain why it didn't work. These questions have to be answered to yourself first, so your prepared to answer them when you tell him your pregnant. If both of you knew at the time you were having unprotected sex, you might want to open up by saying "you know that time or times we didn't use protection". This sets up that the two of you made a equal decision, therefore you are equally responsible for the baby. Hope this helps.
Good Luck,
John

Answer 4

Its a hard one to judge. If you have been using protection but its not worked he may be shocked and react in a bad way, but if you have had un protected sex then surely it wont be that much of a shock as un protected sex will lead to pregnancy. I'm sure you were shocked when you found out? When I got a positive test back after one month of trying for our second baby I was shocked, and we were trying ha. Just remember that if his initial reaction is not a good one, and I'm hoping that if you have a good strong relationship it shouldn't be bad, but if it is he is just shocked, and once he sits back and thinks about it, he just be OK and Realize that it took the pair of you to make your baby.

If he does not support you, its not the end of the world. It may seem that way now, but it will all work out. I was alone with my first pregnancy, her real father has never met her. But that's his loose. He was not ready for a baby as he was 19. But I was only 18 when I got pregnant with her, and I managed to get through the pregnancy with no family support and bring her up. She is nearly 7 now, and I now have a partner who is great, and another 2 children from a previous relationship. I am so Glad I had her she is one of the best things in my life. Good luck telling him, I hope it all works out for you. Take care x

Answer 5

Well, regardless if he'll freak out, he IS the baby's father and deserves the right to know. Quick and to the point is probably the best way to fo it.

Well, since you're 15, you need to tell your parents first, then him. If he freaks out, then let him freak. Just make sure he doesn't get away with it! Either he is there for you and the baby, or his pay-checks needs to be there for you and the baby!

Answer 6

If he truly loves you, there is no financial problem, and you are old enough to have the baby without any complications from relatives, family member, and friends, he wouldn't freak out. Other than that, he might. I'm sorry. I don't know if you're married or not or stable. I can't decide.

Answer 7

Congratulations, I urge you to tell him and he will freak out. I suggest you to sit him in a quiet place and break the news. Prepare for the next step in your life, You know what to do next and seek support around because, the first pregnancy is not an easy task. Good luck and Happy New You.

Answer 8

Who cares if he freaks out you have to be pregnant not him, just tell him and not be scared cause he wasnt freakin out when he was getting his freak on.

Answer 9

It all depends.It freaks most of them out.Just talk to him about baby's and ask if he would want to have one.But do tell him and say if he doesn't want to be part of it,you understand.I am sure after thinking about it he will be.But if you demand and order,he'll run away.It also depends how much he loves you.

Answer 10

We don't know your boyfriend, so we can not tell you how he will react. Just tell him that u want to talk to him and then tell him. If he gets mad then he was not the man for u in the first place

Answer 11

how old is he? i hope he pays child support. however, to many woman spread their legs and men get sent to jail for sex offenders and statutory rape. sad when your not rapping the willing!!!! make sure you show mom and dad this. yes by all means tell him. where was the protection? play with fire one gets burnt!!!!!! sorry I'm not trying to be a *****. i get upset when both parties are willing and one has to do jail time. i hope he is a minor.