Why do I always get nasty looks from people? Why do people hate me? I'm alone, and I have no one because people just hate me. I never did anything to make people hate me. Why was I picked to be the person that can't ever be succesful or even get a friend? When I was in school the guys would call me gay, when I'm not, and the girls would give me nasty look and call me names. Why did it have to happen to me?
2007-01-07 17:53:45 · 15 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
some people are saying maybe i dont look friendly, but i look pretty normal ... i think.
2007-01-07 17:57:53 · update #1
i think maybe its because im a guy, and i dont like to play sports or whatever so maybe people think im weird because of that and I'm 16, so I'm still in school but thinking of dropping out.
2007-01-07 18:00:47 · update #2
Don't drop out of school. High school sucks for a lot of people and you are no exception. You will find out that what people held in high esteem in their teen years is not what older people see as important. What you need to do is find a part time job where you can socialize with people away from school. Once you go to college you will find a lot more people that share the same interests as you. Your self esteem will grow with this. Good luck and stop being so hard on yourself I am sure that you look fine.
2007-01-07 18:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start projecting a more positive image of yourself. Hold your head higher, walk with confidence, and look people in the eye. Most likely, people you see on the street don't hate you and they're not giving you nasty looks- it just appears that way because you feel so down on yourself. This happens to a lot of people, too, not just you. There's nothing you can do about what they did to you in school now, though. It's just time to move on and start a new positive life. I recommend checking out the self-help section in the book store- there are tons there that deal with raising your self-esteem and generally feeling better about yourself.
Smile!
2007-01-07 17:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm me thinks that people don't hate you unless you give them a reason to. I'm sure your not that bad just remember nobody is perfect. I would certainly read self help books from a book store. One of my famous quotes is knowledge is power. Also hold your head up high, smile(even to strangers), and try to do one good deed a day. Doesn't have to be anything huge like bringing someone back to life although that would be good lol. Just little things they will make you feel great because it didn't cost you anything. Good luck in life : )
2007-01-07 18:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice person. You will be successful and have friends if your are nice to people. Dont go around feeling depressed and looking angry.. that will steer people away from you. Just look to be an aproachable happy person. Dont let what other people say to you ... get you down... just be yourself... everyone will not hate you unless u do something to them to make them think that way
2007-01-07 18:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With an outlook like that do you blame them? Try smiling, laughing more. When you walk past someone, smile and say hi. Try not to squint when walking in bright light, wear some sunglasses. People thought I was always mad because I would squint a lot when it was bright out. No one wants to be around someone full of gloom and doom. Though not too many people want to be around someone too sunny, sickening sweet, and bouncy either.
2007-01-07 18:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Stinging Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, people are mean and often inconsiderate. They never understand until they've been there. I have been there, not as bad as you, but still I kind of know where you are coming from. Just remember there are plenty of people out there and they don't all hate you. I don't hate you. And I love you as much as a straight guy can love another straight guy. Sorry I am not trying to sound homosexual or anything, but people need to know that they are loved. I hope that you feel better.
2007-01-07 17:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people judge from looks and maybe u dont look so friendly but hey u shouldnot give up,always try to make friendships and when ever they know u well they will stop hating u..u sound like a good guy
2007-01-07 17:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by tara tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to know you. Do you act gay or wear weird clothes? Just try to fit in a bit and be really nice. Maybe you are ugly and people are very mean to ugly or overweight people sometimes. I know that's true at my school.
2007-01-07 17:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bordering Suicide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not all true. Maybe certain people hate you, but not everyone hates you. You shouldn't think so low of yourself. You just haven't met the right people who are able to understand your condition. Just keep being yourself and somehow you will find your true friends! =)
2007-01-07 17:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it happens to a lot of people, more than you know they just don't always tell anyone..Who knows why people have to call names and say stuff to people to hurt them..I think it is to make themselves look good or think it does...I know it is hard but try to not let it bother you it will change, sooner or later..Try to not let it ruin your life..Make sure you do not turn into one of these kinds of people...Anyone reading this and has done this to anyone you should be ashamed of yourself........
2007-01-07 17:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋