If I have the energy I can make it seem to anyone even myself that I am perfectly fine when deep down I feel that something isnt right. So I feel like I live my life dodging everything that could involve feeling. I hate this but its all that I have known. How do I get rid of this?
2007-01-07 16:45:59 · 7 answers · asked by b 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
people do all sorts of things when they are afraid of pain. when my mother died i did something very similar to that. it took me a long time to really allow my myself to feel anything. but when i did...the pain was like a gift. because then i could start dealing with it and then start healing.
so dont be scared of the pain, or the good feelings either. its part of whats makes you alive and strong.
good luck hun
2007-01-07 17:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by abby19 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I felt like that until I was 46. I had 22 years of therapy. Then, one day all my 46 years of non-feeling started arriving. Just one excruciating pain, flinch, at a time. It lasted for 48 hours. I then laughed and cried, rolling around on the floor for a couple of months, then became, slowly, a happy, healthy person. Changed towns, SanFrancisco to a little town in the woods, changed careers, hell, changed lives. I suggest that doing it sooner is better. THerapy, counseling, talking to an older wiser person about your true, has to be true, feelings will help you realize that we are all just human beings, some of us feel the need to wear heavier masks. When we are able to lose the mask, we are fully human and can start helping others take off their masks.
2007-01-07 17:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by charlie at the lake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the identical method. I suppose like the whole lot is useless and that hapiness is simplest transitority and I do not desire to suppose harm or soreness like I did earlier than. Alcohol helped make me fail to remember approximately my issues and lifestyles however matters simplest obtained worse..worse than how I felt within the first situation. Worse than the entire the soreness I had long past by way of in my lifestyles. So please, medicinal drugs isn't the reply. You must transfer on and fail to remember approximately the beyond. Its difficult and it takes time to heal. But attempt to do matters that'll distract you..if you are religous pass to church. I've heard church can rather difference your lifestyles. Get worried in sporting events, walking within the park is helping me. Or write down all of your emotions on a paper and rip it up or throw it within the hearth as should you have been throwing away the entire dangerous emotions ago. Hope this used to be handy.
2016-09-03 17:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something missing in your life.You are not complite.The broblem is we don't have an answer for you.We don't know you.Think about it,you'll find out.
2007-01-07 16:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should see your local gp and talk about it, you may need to go and speak with a trained psychologist.
2007-01-07 16:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by j3zZiKa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dysthymia, see a Dr.
And don't forget, sometimes I'm wrong.
2007-01-07 16:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by The Twist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So none of us has to feel your pain..............................Thanks
2007-01-07 16:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by gerbare 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋