My husband is angry because he thought he had mono, and couldn't believe I asked him how he got it. A month ago he suggested that my ex husband move into our spare room for money(we are not destitute) and is constantly just acting totally strange. I am pregnant and demanded he get tested for mono(he doesn't have it), and hes angry at me?! Why is he so freakin bizarre? This morning he told me he loved me, and an hour later said he didn't mean it and just wants to keep me off his back.
He also wrote his dad an email saying that I manipulated him into supporting myself and his stepdaughter. We are married, and I just had a baby and am pregnant again. I couldn't get a job now if I tryed. Why is he soo WIERD?
2007-01-07 16:39:23 · 11 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my ex does Not live wit us.
2007-01-07 16:46:22 · update #1
I don't think he sounds weird. First of all there are a lot of ways to get mono. If your thinking it's a strictly sexually transmitted disease it's not. Not at all, I got it when a friend of mine drank out of my pop bottle.
Secondly, if you are breathing down his neck about this he might just be feeling trapped. Give him some room, and respect his boundries a little more. It's not fair to make accusations without some sort of proof. If your not happy with him leave him, otherwise try being on his side. You are his wife after all.
2007-01-07 16:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does not love you anymore.
If he wrote an email like that to his dad, there is a good chance that he means it since he probably assumed that this email would not be read by anyone other than his dad.
Please whatever you do, do not have any more kids with this man. It is obvious that he is feeling trapped.
Not saying that you trapped him but he went from being single to having FOUR people depending on him over the course of less than a few years.
I dont know how old he is but I could imagine if his responsibilites increased but his pay did not, then he is going to start feeling some nostalgia for his past.
Try to see if he can go to counseling with you as he is going to try to leave soon.
words like the ones he used are not things people say about someone that they love.
2007-01-08 00:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just from the small bit that I read in the details of your question, the first question I would ask, is has he ever had a drug problem? He sounds like he is experiencing mood swings, which sometimes can be a sign of someone using Meth or some other type of dependent drug.
The other thought that comes to mind is that he may be upset for some reason with your pregnancy with your second child, since it sounds like it happened so soon after your first.
Try to sit down and talk with him, or maybe seek marital counseling.
Good luck. I hope things work out for both of you.
2007-01-08 00:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all because of the ex-husband in the spare room. If your current husband suggested this arrangement then maybe he wants out of the relationship and didn't want to say anything to you but also didn't want to leave you alone....he suggested it to ensure you would not be alone and would in fact have someone there to help take care of you and the kids. Anyways, his getting mad at you for a simple question suggests to me that he is guilty of cheating. Just my opinion though.
2007-01-08 00:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT seems to me that he is feeling trapped and closed in and just a
little ticked off at you, and maybe he thinks that its you that is
acting weird. To be very honest it sounds like a lot more is going on with your story.
Terra P.
2007-01-08 00:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybee he is acting weird because of the both of you having another child so soon. Maybee! How long have you guys been married?
2007-01-08 00:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your ex-husband out of the house, stupid! yeah, maybe it was his idea to move the guy in, but that's a bad bad bad idea. personally. i think his mind is so clouded with insecurity because of the situation, that he's not thinking straight.
2007-01-08 00:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's hiding something. Have you ever heard 'A good defense is a good offense'? Your husband is defending himself by being offensive to you.
2007-01-08 00:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, emotional problems? Maybe he needs to seek counseling.
2007-01-08 00:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by jst_lv_me_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there are issues maybe you should just ask him to tell you the truth.
2007-01-08 00:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋