That I have a gf but I am constantly thinking about the same sex
what should I do
2007-01-07 16:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by khye 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
let her go before it gets worse and find a nice male to settle down with.
It will only make things harder on her that you would have been lying to her all that time
2007-01-07 16:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong but you need to have a very deep "heart-to-heart" with yourself and decide where you stand. Only you can decide this. But you are not wrong. You are simply coming to terms with "feelings". Whether you ever act on them is another thing. Just trust yourself and don't make any sudden/snap decisions about categorizing yourself. Just go with the flow. You will be okay. Go to the library and see what you can find on young and gay people or young and bisexual people. And remain calm. Perhaps join a on-line chat for gay/lesbian/curious/trans teens/ young adults. And keep asking questions. Best of luck!
And to Carter: What makes you so sure God didn't make him exactly as he is? Why is that NEVER a possibility with YOU people.
2007-01-08 00:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stuart W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are standing on the fence... just jump over. Find out what please you. Any phantasms ? You know that everything is possible in your life if you make it possible. You may not enjoy having sex with an other man if you don't accept being gay or bi or tree. Take your time but do not let a cute one passing by without experiencing love. If you hit the good one you will decide without asking a single question. Good luck to you!
2007-01-11 22:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love you gf? or are you just with her to mask the fact that you are gay?
if it's love, then you're probably bi. you'll have to do some soul searching to decide if you can be happy with just your gf, or if you feel you need more..
if this is just a cover up to mask being gay, i'd say dump the gf. don't waste her time if you are not really in love with her nor serious about her.. get yourself a man and you'll be happier..
2007-01-08 00:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart. You don't have to decide about anything now... Date both... I you are constantly thinking about boys... well...
2007-01-08 00:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave your girlfriend before she really gets hurt
2007-01-08 00:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are thinking of the same sex in a sexual way, yes, that is wrong. Pray to God, He will show you the way.
2007-01-08 00:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
if u r into same sex then let her go
2007-01-08 00:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU MAY WANT TO TRY THE SAME SEX TO SEE WHERE IT GOES.
2007-01-08 00:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by port5337 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋