I'm curious. I'm talking about when you're intimate. I hate my stomach and my hubbby gets mad at me for being insecure about it.
2007-01-07 16:13:43 · 17 answers · asked by Just Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i hate my stomach too, but my husbands is way bigger then mine and he loves me just the way i am.. im no longer insecure about my body since we have been together, he makes me feel beautiful..
btw.. im 5'4 165 my hubby is 6'2 350 and i love every inch of him, i hate skinny men, skin and bones turn me off so much..
2007-01-07 16:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can. I've been with my wife for 12 years now. We've been through thick and thin together (yes, pun intended). She has a belly and is self conscious about it. To be perfectly honest it doesn't matter to me. I love her very much and we have a great marriage. That is what matters more to me than a tight stomach. we love the person and the relationship, not aesthetics. You can't have a relationship with a stomach, no matter how tight it is. So, stop thinking so much (my wife does it too) and enjoy the fact that your husband still enjoys being intimate with you. Go on, get off the computer and go be with him!
2007-01-07 16:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
ok sounds like a qualify for this question. Being married for 5 years with 3 youngsters, i might want to correctly say, that I married my spouse for the girl that she is. The actual visual attraction of someone might want to be altered in diverse techniques yet not the soul. i have self assurance that once you get married (religiously it truly is) it truly is a public confirmation that the both one in each of you're binding your souls to change into one. So in my opinion, something can replace, yet real unconditional love in the route of your better 0.5 would not. consequently the vows, "till eventually lack of life do us area" really lack of life releases you from those vows.
2016-12-01 23:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by korniyenko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I use to feel the same way about my body but I know my husband loves me insecurity is something men hate .It took me along time to get over my "flabby" stomach.
2007-01-07 16:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife went from 130 to 190 with our child and never once was I ever, ever turned off by her belly
2007-01-07 16:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by lightning14 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean mine says he loves my body I'm 5'8 and 195 but i know he cant he is always obsessing about his weight and he is a guy he makes me feel so bad i have this friend who is like 5'7 and 125 and she is always saying she needs to lose weight around me and my husband it makes me feel like s**t i think she does it on purpose but i cant say any thing i dint think this answered your question but it me get some things off my chest and made me shed a tear
2007-01-07 16:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Kitty!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most ladies think all men like skinny ladies and its not just try in fact most men like ladies who have extra pounds to hold onto if he says he like u the way u r take hisword for it till he says otherwise
2007-01-07 16:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by vakere2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married, but my partner is not the slimmest of women, and is slightly concious about it, but it doesn't put me off in the slightest.
2007-01-07 16:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
look it is like this love yourself then worry about what he thinks i myself loves every inch of my wife's body & he should love himself more instead of trying to make himself feel bigger by putting you down good luck in life lol
2007-01-07 16:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like women who are built for comfort, not for speed.
2007-01-07 16:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋