My husband is angry because he thought he had mono, and couldn't believe I asked him how he got it. A month ago he suggested that my ex husband move into our spare room for money(we are not destitute) and is constantly just acting totally strange. I am pregnant and demanded he get tested for mono(he doesn't have it), and hes angry at me?! Why is he so freakin bizarre? This morning he told me he loved me, and an hour later said he didn't mean it and just wants to keep me off his back.
He also wrote his dad an email saying that I manipulated him into supporting myself and his stepdaughter. We are married, and I just had a baby and am pregnant again. I couldn't get a job now if I tryed. Why is he soo WIERD?
2007-01-07 16:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like you both need marriage counserling for you r kids sake if nothing else
2007-01-07 16:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by mikefirefightermedic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole moving your ex in gives me reason to believe that he might be seeing another woman. He is totally not being honest here. How could he have thought that he had mono if he didn't know how he got it? Mono is the "kissing" virus, and is only passed through saliva and mucus. You need to make a big decision here for yourself and your children. Ask him to get counseling and if he doesn't want to go, then your question has been answered. I would never put up with that behavior. Be strong and be positive. Good luck.
2007-01-08 00:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get away and spend some time to reflect on your relationship with your husband. A few weeks away is all it takes to clear your thoughts and be able to start thinking things through clearly. Hopefully there's some place you can go (sibling, friend, parents). If you choose to get back together, the ex husband needs to go, plain and simple. He's only getting in the way.
2007-01-08 00:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur fault for marrying the guy, should have gotten to know him for a long time. I really think that I want to be in a serious relationship but I want my freedom too. The more I think about it Im not sure if I want to come home to someone every single night. I want my cake and eat it to, so u should just rethink ur mistake.
2007-01-08 00:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by laura k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hate it to say this. but you should leave him. maybe you can wait until you give birth. or if he's too unbearable, then do it now. but i can't see any reason why you would still stay with him. the fact that he wants to have your ex-husband rent your spare room bothers me so much.
2007-01-08 00:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds strange, but is that the entire story?
2007-01-08 00:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by ams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not GAY and rooting your ex-husband is he?????
2007-01-08 00:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Spanky the monkey !!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋