If this one girl impersonated you and someone else online just to see your reaction when the person instant messaged you up to 5x or more a week and also started saying rumors about you and sent nasty email to you from her and also i think apparently from someone else from another account to rile you up....but you are ignoring it and sick of being a "sitting duck" as she told you on AIM, what would you do? This stopped for 2 weeks now because I blocked her, but I kind of have this feeling of wanting revenge creep up on me and its never happened before. Oh she also tried to kick me out of school based on false premises after telling other people at school lies about me. How to suppress my feelings or actually act on it without the impending threat for her to kick me out? Serious answers only
2007-01-07 15:57:34 · 14 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try not to act on that. It will get you in trouble and play right into her hands. I suspect that the blocking hurt her more than anything because you took away her power. People like that feed off the negativity they create in others. I was once told by someone that you should never have to explain yourself, your friends know you and understand and your enemies won't care. As for the school situation...I would make it a point to have a one on one with the principal or vice principal but I would be mature about it and explain that you do not want her to get in trouble but you need them to know that she is trying to provoke you and you do not intend to act on it. That way if anything come up, you will have nip it in the bud before the lies grow. Take the high road my friend and let the low lifes wallow in their sludge.
2007-01-07 16:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by JENNLUPE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might not be what you want to hear. But Trust me, I've been in your spot before only on a bigger scale. You are doing the right thing, by being a "Sitting Duck" as she calls you. It may not feel like it right now, but you are doing the right thing, because when this WHOLE thing is over you will be able to hold your head high, and know that you did not compromise what you believe on the inside, besides if you try to attack back, then it might look like the things that she is saying about you is try. If you have nothing to hide and the things that she is saying about ARE NOT TRUE then Just let it be. You'll find when you show people that it doesn't bother you are aleast pretend that it doesn't bother you people think Higher of you.
2007-01-07 16:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by harmycj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good gawd I'm so glad I'm not in school any more. This sort of catty nastiness from the girls nearly drove me to homicide before I finally graduated.
A lot of people will tell you to walk away from it, that her own nastiness will only make her look bad in the end, and that IS true, but the need for delivering payback can just about overwhelm you sometimes.
The best revenge is to live better than they do. It kills people like that to see you going about your normal routine, seemingly unphased by their vicious BS. The people who fall for their lies are not people you want for friends anyway, and your true friends will not be sucked in. If you try to pay her back, she'll doubtless use it to drag you through even more mud. Don't give the little B the satisfaction.
It's ok to flip her the bird when only she can see ya though. :P
2007-01-07 16:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I believe that the best revenge is living a full and happy life. If you work hard in school and go on to be a great success, meanwhile she ends up never getting anywhere with her life because she is too busy tormenting others, then that would be the perfect revenge.
2007-01-07 16:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by inkantra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything for 6 months to a year. Revenge is a dish best served cold.
You really don't win with revenge, but she deserves it 10 fold. Use public humiliation and don't take credit or let her know it was you. Its tasty that way.
Good hunting.
2007-01-07 16:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge never works. It only makes you look bad and usually causes more trouble than what it is worth.
However, you can report her to the Internet Service Provider for harrassment.
Lifes
2007-01-07 16:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get back at her by making a account with her name & send her some nasty emails or send some to her man if she has one, telling him that she is seeing some other guys on the side or that she tried to pick up your man. let her know how it feels to have her life messed with.
2007-01-07 16:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about revenge....it really isn't sweet. Work on not thinking about her she's useless. I know its hard also ignore when she sees that she can't get to you she will leave you alone.
2007-01-07 16:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma will take care of it, go on with your life. Best advice i can say, i seen it happen before.
2007-01-07 16:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by κύριος κτίστης 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can prove the harassment, it falls under the anti-bullying rules of your school.
You could get her expelled if vengence is what you want.
2007-01-07 16:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by mmd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋