Ok me and this guy was dating when i seperated from my husband. Now hes back around since im getting a divorce. But I left him alone to be with my husband. Now he says he cant trust anyone but he still loves me. Also stats that he cant trust any woman. My question is do you think i caused him not to trust every woman?
2007-01-07 15:48:09 · 28 answers · asked by Dareisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may have treated him badly but it's NOT your fault. What he decides to do and how he decides to react to what happens in life is HIS fault.
2007-01-07 15:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is something that men say just to make a woman feel special. If you are the reason that he can trust no other woman, then how on God's green earth is he able to trust and love you? Really...think about it. I doubt you caused this caliber of mistrust of women in his life.
2007-01-07 15:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Scoonba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you left him for your husband did hurt him and I could not blame him if he is hurt, but then i can since he knew you were married. I can't feel sorry for either one of you. I think you need to spend some time alone and find out who you really are.
2007-01-07 15:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you the only reason he can't trust women? Perhaps. Did you contribute to this feeling? Most likely. You were married and unfaithful to your wedding vows. Do you really expect either man not to feel anything? My suggestion is that you concentrate on one relationship at a time.
2007-01-07 15:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by a1nos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because any way that you look at it you were still married. Meaning that you wasn't his in the first place. That just don't sound right to me. Your situation don't have a thing to do with what's going on with him if you ask me. That's another issue, but he's using you as the excuse.
2007-01-07 15:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Phatbum!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have the power to make him not trust any woman.
But he does have reason not to trust you. You cheated on your husband with him, then you left him to go back with your husband, now you've left your husband again.
2007-01-07 15:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't trust women till he met you and decided to trust you and just so happens you decided to work things out with your husband. He'll get over it, you can't force yourself to want to be with him. He's being dramatic, he's just hurt.
2007-01-07 15:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly but I'm thinking he may have been hurt in the past and when he met you he thought he found the right one. But since it didn't go as planned he probably doesn't wanna take a chance of it happening again
2007-01-07 15:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it had to be a lot of things...have ya'll ever talked about your past??? It will be hard to gain trust back but if you love him and he loves you like he says then he will trust you again.
2007-01-07 15:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by jackie O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to put something off on you that he needs to own. He knew you weren't available when you two started jammin, so what's up with his responsibility? He can't be trusted either!
2007-01-07 15:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lion J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not blame it on yourself...if he thinks like that he thought like that before knowing you (just ask him if yes or not) . love and trust cannot be appliedto everyone like a tag. every story is different. we must take risks if we want to find the real love.
2007-01-07 15:51:28 · answer #11 · answered by lovephoto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋