okay, so heres the deal. I am still a young teen and i have a feeling i may be bi, but, i 'm not sure. I have found my self thinking about girls in that sort of manner. Is this normal for my age? i guess just, wondering about your orientation? If i am bi, i have no trouble confronting myself, its just the way i am, and i can't change it! so , i should just be happy with what god gave me. also, is natural to be curious about sex? because, some of my friends are, and im not sure if i sould be too???
thank you for all your help. I can use all the help i can get!
2007-01-07 15:43:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you search Yahoo questions in this category, you will find many questions that are nearly identical to yours. I say this just so you know just how "normal" and "natural" your question is for your age. Also, women tend to be more open to their emotions and feelings, so affection for your female friends naturally leads to the question of whether the affection could be physical as well as emotional. Stay open to your feelings, and stay proud of who you are no matter what. Don't let narrow-minded people intimidate you. Gay is beautiful, bi is beautiful, straight is beautiful, as long as you are true to yourself and do not judge others.
2007-01-07 16:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by fragileindustries 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just in a normal stage of adolescent development. I wouldn't put too much worry into this but if you are really curious then I agree with some of the other answers. Go for it. I know many men (and women) who "experimented" as a young teen. Some even went on with the experimentation into college. Just don't categorize/pigeonhole yourself at a young age. Allow yourself room to grow, develop and breathe. What you feel now may last a lifetime or it may be just a short lived feeling. Whatever you decide, you are a beautiful person and NEVER allow yourself or others to tell you otherwise. I tell my children (both teens) this on a regular basis. Best of luck! ;)
2007-01-08 00:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Stuart W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're in the same place I am. I'm 16 and I've always thought women were beutiul...but...I never really looked at another woman in THAT way. Until I went to my first Otep show, I just remember seeing her on stage and going "My god...I want to have very, very dirty sex with this woman!!!" I mean, I always thought she was pretty and very talented but I never felt that way. But ever since then I've looked at women and girls in a romantic sense. For a while I thought "Oh my god, what if im a lesbian." But then i realized...so what!
Don't worry, It's VERY normal to think like this at your age. I think it's almost even healthy...so looking back, we can be happy with the choices we've made down the line. I mean...you don't wanna be left with any "what ifs" or "if onlys."
2007-01-08 00:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by wickedxjade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is you are probably just beginning to sort things out in your developing life and you are willing to ask questions but keep it within your own age group.Don't fall into the hands of an older person either male or female.Go out with girls and boys of your own age.It is only natural for you to be curious about sex but don't race into it before you are ready and whatever you do young lady if members of iether sex suggest drugs explore your sexuality but never explore where they want to go.You are a brave young girl
2007-01-08 00:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal for your age? yes im 13 and i know im a lesbian no question. I like girls its no big deal for me, maybe for my family but i have not told them. one day they will find out. curious about sex? of course who isn't its what nature intended you to do it a part of being a human being. let your fellings tell you
2007-01-08 00:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having friends who are orientated a different way can confuse you. But if you're having feelings such as that (which is completely normal BTW we humans are sexual beings) ask a friend if they will be your girlfriend, just to try it out.
2007-01-07 23:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural dont worry u will be fine just go with the flow and if you find yourself attracted to girlz dont fight it its normal and FUN...wen i was younger i only liked guyz and kissed girls for fun and 2 impress the guyz but then wen i got to the age of like18 i knew i like girlz a bit more and went with it...experimented with a few girls and yeah had fun...but im with a guy now and havnt bin with a women since (only wen we had our 3sum) but i would still be with a girl im def attracted to them....its not wrong its sexy if u ask me...ive also bin in a relationship wiv a girl but felt that i prefered males wen it came to relationships...Good luck wiv ur future :)
2007-01-08 06:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound bi-curious. If you want to explore it then go for it. You may or may not like it.
2007-01-07 23:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by N♂t - ♂ut - Yet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "normal" to know it and it's "normal" to question it at your age.
2007-01-07 23:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r curious that's all
2007-01-07 23:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋