2007-01-07 15:25:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Better believe it! Mom is tired. You might want her attention, but the baby "needs" her attention. Right now anyway. Things will get back to normal...just give it a year or so. Not kidding...let her take care of your baby....then she'll be able to take care of you. Don't rush her or make her feel guilty for caring for her baby and not you. She'll come to you more willingly if you are not complaining about how the baby gets all of her attention. By all means though, let her know how much you love her and want her along the way. Tell her: What a lucky baby to have all your time and attention.................................set your needs aside long enough for her to be a good mom....the rest will come. Patience...........
sex itself should not change other than maybe less frequent due to mom's exhaustion!
2007-01-07 15:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is one of the major life changes that psychologists recognize as causing significant changes in any relationship. Close relatives dying, job changes, baby born, all these are major life changes. You can expect a significant alteration of the relationship. Whether or not these changes involve your sexual relations depends on many factors. For one thing, if it is the first baby, the opportunities are really limited. So be prepared for interruptions for the first few months. Also, it is important to recognize that the baby doesn't substitute for the partner. There are books on the subject of life after baby, some of them are even helpful. Good luck.
2007-01-07 23:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - usually because of the environment and not due to physical changes unless you are uncomfortable with your tummy.
A mother is tired, sometimes spit full, and her priorities are on the child. The man wants sex as per usual, or perhaps more because he is jealous due to the lack of attention. Then he gets demanding and the woman gets spiteful. I think it settles once the baby is about 4 or 5 months old and things settle down. Then its back to normal.
2007-01-07 23:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon you and your partner.
Usually after you have a baby your concentration goes to the new born baby.
But there are a few couples who enjoy their sex life even after their babies are grown up.
2007-01-07 23:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by kirthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a male so my wife doesnt seem changed (and i got 2 kids)
2007-01-07 23:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by mastershake33754 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends sometiems it takes a little to get back into it your body feels different and has to get use to it again.
2007-01-07 23:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by redbone001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want it to change...of course you will be more tired but...make time.!! good luck
2007-01-07 23:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋