2007-01-07 14:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by NuRz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I usually say, "That was uncalled for" or deal with it quietly. n
2007-01-07 14:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to express my anger with my hands. After I took an Anger Managment classes I use communication. I just simply say " I am hurt because you did this"... Or that really pisses me off when you say..." How will the person know what they did or how they made you feel unless you tell them?
2007-01-07 22:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell them to F*** OFF, but the truth is I keep the way I feel inside and usually let them hurt me a few more times.
2007-01-07 22:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, say it to yourself. Pretend like you're talking to that person in your mind. Then, write it down and really articulate what is going on, how it happened, and what the effects are. Then, after you've really figured things out, calmly address that person and tell them about what you wrote in a non-confrontational way.
2007-01-07 22:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either express your words to them in person, phone call or a letter. But you should think about ho you want to express your words.
2007-01-07 22:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by lana1meyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smile at them.. only a gentle smile silence my gnawing irritation and anger. I did this once to a friend who in the end look defeated as she knew she had not hurt me in a way she x-pected to be...
Just Be a dumbledore who face vodelmort in a gentle way and silent attack..
2007-01-09 08:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Imaginarist... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once i got pissed off with my guy that i hit him with his helmet when i got off his motor bike... and i tell him what i intend to do when i catch him cheating on me... does wonders really... he knows that i can do something horrible when i'm mad....
not in the topic but i'd like to say it anyway... my classmate got pissed off with her guy she actually wounded him using scissors! the guys hand was bleeding by the time help arrived and last christmas the guy spent it with bruises on his face coz my classmate knocked him senseless with punches...talk about the Amazon queen... oh hell! she's pretty scary... makes me pale when i remember her guy, i don't know how she hit her guy but hell... self defense courses are definitely cool!
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PS: the guy who answered this question first is stupid
2007-01-07 22:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by AtsirkEiram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be blunt about it and say aloud, "That really hurt my feelings."
or "I dont appreciate being treated this way."
or you could ignore them.
2007-01-07 22:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell them...or else they may never really know what they did.
2007-01-07 22:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Betty Boop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say "Bye bye" as I walk away.
2007-01-07 22:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋