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I found my one true love when i was 17 years old, but i moved to university in Brighton and she's at university in Cambridge. I'm 20 now she's 19 We've broken up several times but whenever we're in the same place we always end up back together even if its just for a few days. Her Dad says that we have to get married, her family love me. And like me she's jewish so my family would be happy.

2007-01-07 14:22:25 · 20 answers · asked by youlistentomeiamyourmother 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

20 answers

if you keep breakin up somethings not right.find someone else

2007-01-07 14:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by starr67 4 · 0 0

I think if you have found your true love you will want to be together no matter what at all costs and no matter the circumstances are. The fact that you have broken up a number of times and come back may suggested that the two of you are attracted to each other in a certain way but true love ? not so sure

2007-01-08 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by joker35 2 · 0 0

Hi youlisten!!!

Hey, if you did find your true love, I'm so happy for you!!!
Congratulations. It is not every day someone finds one true love.

I haven't found mine yet, even though I have loved sincerely, it hasn't being return to me. So for someone in this case you to find your true love, I rejoice.

About marrying her just take your time, don't rush into it. Both of you are very young and still have to experience and get in touch with your true self, for that "TRUE LOVE" to work out. Is my believe that for this same reason is that you keep breaking up.

You both need to fill fulfill and contempt with what you have accomplished as individuals. If one of you is NOT ready for any reason, you should follow your instincts. This will determine if when you marry, it will be for a long time.

WISHING YOU THE BEST, GOD YOU BLESS & HAVE A HAPPY LIFE

ALLIV Z

2007-01-07 14:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0 0

I'm sorry but why are you thinking about what your families want ; isn't this about what both of you want? Is this just a habit/pattern that you ahve developed? Do you keep in contact while you are apart ? Do you see other people when you are apart? I think you need to sit down together and have a serious discussion as to where you see this relationship going - then take it from there.

2007-01-07 21:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 0 0

This is one of those things where you just have to wait and see where it leads you. If the pair of you want to make a commitment, then obviously you need to talk about it.

I found that while I was at uni, there was so much going on. it seemed pointless being tied to one person.

You do say, what if I have met my one true love? Not I have met
her...

Good luck anyway, Cassandra

2007-01-07 19:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

So whats the problem here man!!! Go get married and explore the new world. Whatever happens will happen just dont think about it. Enjoy with what you have now...its now or never!

2007-01-07 14:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

3 posibilities because she is been damage contained in the previous and has been disapointed she might want to experience that her have self assurance in adult men is now not there. once you've been damage a lot you're scard to be damage lower back. Cos she is in love with you she might want to experience that she will be able to lose self administration and skill, in case you've been to disapoint her she will be able to fall extremely troublesome. perhaps she is scard that in the journey that your mutually cos of your travelling you'll meet somebody else and do merely what befell for your ex spouse to her. I easily have lengthy previous lower back to an ex that change into completely inlove with me even inspite of the indisputable fact that I didnt experience a similar way for him. I left the present guy that i change into with cos i change into not with him #very lengthy cos i did not understand the position this is going to finally end up, also change into scard that I loved the recent guy more suitable than he did with me and that i had no skill and administration. i might want to fall too troublesome if he change into to split with me. or possibly she is scard of dedication and feels undesirable that she has damaged up a relatives over it. even inspite of the indisputable fact that you suggested you've not been chuffed in a lengthy time period, adult men lie a lot and he or she has been oviously lied to earlier such as her boyfriend, she merely might want to not have self assurance what comes out of your mouth. she might want to ascertain it if she isn't contained in the photo you'll bypass lower back to the position you belong. Or She considered you as interesting and cute yet not boyfriend fabric for something extreme, has she were given youngsters? does she desire youngsters? how previous is she? she might want to be searching at this as a destiny component, questions she might want to ask '' what might want to or not this is favor to have a guy that travels too a lot and leaves me at abode with our youngsters etc, will he then loose pastime in me and locate someone new and end our relationship?''

2016-12-01 23:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

then whats the problem? you both seem to have the chemistry and the support of your families - which a lot of other couple have to struggle to get. i say - go for it - you will never know, unless you take that chance. love is worth it - if you honestly and deeply feel that she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with

2007-01-07 14:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by CHAMaya 2 · 0 0

you are too young to talk about marriage yet.
maybe you don't even really know what the love is, not yet.
if you really think your career first then after maybe 5 more years just let yourself being more mature and deeper in thinking. if you still love her, you can propose to her.

2007-01-11 11:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0 0

Do you really feel a couple days now and then is something to base a lifetime around?? What are you doing when you're not with her? There's your answer.

2007-01-07 14:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by driver 2 · 0 0

Its not her parents decision. What does she want? Let her know how much you love her and need her in your life and then ask her what she wants. You are going to have to live with her decision good or bad.

2007-01-07 14:26:44 · answer #11 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0 0

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