I know its wierd to want to go through 9 months of pregnancy and labor but not have the child afterwards, but I do. Ive even considered getting pregnant just to give the baby up for adoption. What is going on with me? Anyone else ever feel this way?
2007-01-07 14:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think the formal medical terminology for that syndrome is "bug house nuts"
2007-01-07 14:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to be cool headed in my response to you and your posting which honestly angered me reading it. I am not even someone who posts on this site. I googled for something else and got to this site and read this posting and had to respond. I think you are being sellfish and want the attention you get when you are pregnant. You definitely need help looking into why you feel this way. I would not get pregnant to give a child up for adoption simply for the reason that you wanted to be pregnant but not be a parent. The two go together and that is unfair for the child. Having a baby is the most amazing experience you can ever have. It is a great experience through the pregnancy but even better when you have your precious baby to hold and nurture.
2007-01-07 22:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by maggieforest2 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a phase you are going through. You obviously have no idea what it is like to be pregnant. It is not all peaches & cream, especially towards the end. Let's say you did go ahead, get pregnant and give the child up for adoption - why would you want to do that to the child? They may go to a good home, but it will be one more person in the world who does not know their real parents. Go see a psychiatrist, you have some issues to work out.
2007-01-07 22:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should look into surrogacy if you are old enough and in good physical condition. You'd help a family who wants a child, experience Pregnancy and get paid. Being pregnant was not fun for me so it may not even be what you were expecting. You may want the attention that pregnant women get. You would probably want the baby you carry once it happens though....
2007-01-07 22:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say part of you wants to have a baby and the other part doesn't.
If for any reason you get pregnant and nothing seems to help you and you want to put your baby up for adoptions Kudos to you because there are many people out there that wants a child like my husband and I.
2007-01-07 22:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by navy_seabee_wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you crave attention and are insecure about your femininity.
While I wouldn't advocate getting pregnant to give a baby up for adoption, you may want to consider suorgacy. But, your mind and hormones could change, and you may want to keep the baby you nurtured for 9 months, only to find out you legally can't.
2007-01-07 22:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Blah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel this way too. I miss being pregnant. Even though I had morning sickness for 15 weeks, and it SUCKED. I liked the feeling of growing a baby inside of me. I don't want another baby though, not for a long time anyway. So I just ignore my longing to be pregnant.
2007-01-07 22:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god damn man, the world already had enough babies cuz people dont really care, this world would be over populated soon, thats not really good. but y do u act like that? arent u sick that people are just having sex and getting pregnant, and they wine and want the baby to be adopted over ****?
cuz that really not what sex was for
2007-01-07 22:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by burning ice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that life is a journey.. maybe you are meant to give someone a baby or be a surogate... I don't believe you would feel this way unless you have emotional things to work through or unless you are meant for something along this line
2007-01-07 22:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I used to when I was 18 but now I realized that it was even better to have a kid and how precious it would b!
2007-01-07 22:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋