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Please share a personal story of a time in your life that was hard (that you overcomed) or a happy time in your life! I need some inspiration...tough time in my life at the moment

2007-01-07 14:15:07 · 8 answers · asked by Fi 2 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

Please elaborate! I want every detail!!

2007-01-07 14:20:42 · update #1

8 answers

Well 18 years ago my precious baby boy died and I lost the man of my dreams shortly after. Now so many years later I have a beautiful little girl and because of what I learned in the time that was to dark after loosing him, I adore my precious girl and try never ever to take her for granted. Her smile lights up the whole world for me.

2007-01-07 14:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by crct2004 6 · 2 0

I think the hardest time in my life happened in the weeks before and after I got married. And my marriage had nothing to do with it! Five weeks before the wedding, I was the passenger in a rollover car accident that left my right humerus (upper arm) bone shattered. I was knocked unconscious, so I don't remember the accident actually happening. But I was in the hospital for 8 days. After that, I could not even do simple things such as fix my hair, or take a shower without help, and I had to learn to use my left arm and hand. Because of that, I had to stay with my future inlaws for a few weeks. A couple of weeks after getting out of the hospital, I had to undergo another surgery for a skin graft because the tissue damage was so extensive. Gradually though, I started feeling better and wanted to go back to work for just half days since my body was still not up to par, and I was suffering from Vertigo (extreme dizziness) as well. In that time the wedding happened as planned, and then it was a few weeks after that when they fired me from my job. For poor performance. HELLO! BROKEN ARM HERE! I was still having to wear the arm brace! So there I was, unemployed after going through that awful wreck and a long, hard recovery. My new husband and I now had to deal with only one income which caused financial despair. I could find a job nowhere. We were both on antidepressants for a period of time.

Thankfully, almost two years later, I can now say that things have gotten much better. It can't rain forever, and God always provides. I now finally have a great job that I love, and my husband and I are now managing our finances better than we ever have because if an emergency like that happens again, we want to be prepared and not plunged into distress and debt again. Also, my arm is well healed, just in need of some plastic surgery to repair the deep scarring. But I can definitely say that is one of the hardest things I will hopefully have to ever overcome, it was a very dark time for me and my husband. But the wreck didn't kill me, so I guess it has made me stronger. : )

2007-01-07 22:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Melody 3 · 0 0

Last year my Dad was in the Hospital for eight months, at first the Doctors didn't want him to loose his leg so they tried 8 surgeries to try and keep the foot, then the whole leg. Finally they had to amputate the leg and then, one month after that operation my Father passed away. It was both a hard time and a beautiful time for me. I had been very distant from my Dad for a long long time, but from the moment he got sick until he passed away we started talking and got to be closer than we had ever been. Those hard days taught me to be strong and to learn how to accept that sometimes things don't work the way you want them to for a reason. For months we kept urging the Doctors to try and do something, until finally we understood that my Father wanted to let go, and as hard as that was, I thank God for the opportunity He gave me at reconciliation. After he passed away I got to know other parts of him through everyone that went to the funeral and from his friends, of how although we weren't close he followed my every step and knew many things about me.
No matter how hard the road gets, keep on walking, you will grow, you will learn, and in the end you will find that there is always a reason for why things go the way they do.
Good luck and God Bless.

2007-01-07 22:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by White 7 · 1 0

uhm i dont know if i can help, but here it goes. right now im in high school, and back in middle school and my kinda my freshman year, i was shy and wasnt good at making friends, i mean im not boring or weird, but well anyways, i have this friend, and i never realized it but she helped me sooo much. shes like VERY outgoing and fun to be with. and over a couple years i finally realized that i shloudnt care so much about what people think about me because it was keeping me from having a fun time in high school. i never knew i was actually changing but now that i moved out of state to a different school, i found out that im am totally different than a couple years ago not even that even this past year. and i was just having a great time back at my old schhool with new friends and stuff. but then i had to move, and i never thought it would be hard, because not too long ago i was excited about the move. but now that im here in florida (i moved from conn.) im going to an even better school, adn making friends is soo much easier. a few weeks ago i wrote a letter to my friend back in conn. telling her for being such a great frined and everything. well i hope i didnt bore you, but this was a big thing in my life...i know im only a teenager, but good luck with what youre going through!!

2007-01-07 22:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0 0

When I was 13?,we went to an evening service,Christmas Eve,
Dad was gonna stay home and put up the tree.We always put up our tree on the eve.When we got home the tree was laying down,
and Dad and his stuff were gone.He left again.

2007-01-07 22:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0 0

My son was born with hole in his heart. I remember him in the ICU after surgery and watching that ventilator going up and down and praying it would always go back up. They said he could hear me so I talked till I was hoarse. He's now 15 years old and on the honor role at school! Best of luck and lots of love to you!

2007-01-07 22:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 2 0

This is the toughest time I have ever faced in my life and I have faced some difficult times. My husband has terminal cancer.

2007-01-07 22:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well, you need to *chin up* some.

You can do ANYTHING you put your mind to. Make it your goal. You are JUST as capable of succeeding as the next person.
Don't be too hard on yourself...

2007-01-07 22:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by clever nickname 6 · 0 1

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