when my husband get around others he is all in smiles but not with me . and wants to be in touch with ex step?

Question

daughter , why and really don't want me to know when they talk over the phone what should i do

Answer 1

Back off. This is his step-daughter and just because the relationship is over with the ex doesn't mean that the relationship is over with the child. Here is an example, My sister remarried with one child from a previous marriage. There are other children from the 2nd marriage. The marriage ended and the 2nd husband stopped having anything to do with the child from the first marriage. the child was upset and felt rejected because the 2nd ex-husband wanted nothing else to do with him. He still questions now what he did wrong. Let your husband keep in contact with the step-daughter. Your going to push him further away.

Answer 2

Honestly, he's all smiles around others because he is probably a nice likeable guy. Not around you, probably because the relationship is going sour and he doesn't feel like he can talk with you about it. He doesn't want you to know when he talks with his step-daughter over the phone because he fears it will cause trouble.

Answer 3

These men are just born selfish I know I have one he is usually in a bad mood around the house and puts on a good hubby/ daddy out in public makes me look like a you know what god forbid I mention something not positive about him. It drives me nuts. He is a good guy and is faithful as the day is true yet he is a grump. As for the ex step daughter if he has to talk to her in private than I would not trust it.

Answer 4

i think you have self esteem and control issues. if he helped raise his step daughter, he probably wants to remain in her life. if he doesn't have any children of his own, maybe this girl is like a daughter to him.
it's none of your business what they talk about. does your husband need to know everything you talk about?

you need to relax and back away. if your husband only smiles around others and not you, then perhaps he is upset with you. don't question him about his phone conversations or his step daughter. you are only pushing him away from you.

Answer 5

He probably doesn't want you to know because you get upset. There is no reason why he shouldn't keep in touch with his ex step daughter if they had a good relationship. What you should do is to stop trying to control who he talks to then he wouldn't have to go behind your back to do it.

Answer 6

he doesn't want u to know because he thinks it will cause trouble. if he treated u better, and was nicer to u, maybe u would feel better about him being in touch with the stepdaughter. u feel everyone is a priority but u, u feel. he treats others well but not u, u need to sit down have a conversation with him,tell him u feel hurt and feel he doesn't really love u anymore. u are jealous of the attention others get, and feel u are being slighted. got to talk it out and hope he will meet u half way, good luck.

Answer 7

Let him see his step-daughter. They chose to have a bond, don't break it.
Your husband spends most of his time with you. This logically means that you will see more ranges of emotion from him then anyone else. His smile could be a mask he wears in public. If true, this means that he is most comfortable with you; willing to be himself.

Answer 8

Why dont you talk to him about it? You know what you should do, rent some movies, make some popcorn etc, and hang out with him. show him a good time. go to dinner or something...and try to talk things over with him. i hope everything works out for you.

Answer 9

His step-daughter was around before you, right or wrong?

Answer 10

You already asked this question. Stop being a selfish witch and let the man know his family. I hate selfish controlling women like you. Is your name Rosemary???