I feel that i don't do enough for my fiance, and im afraid that im gonna lose him if i dont show him a good time? I really try, but can anyone give me tips what i should do to make sure he's also enjoying our love instead of him doing everything for me?! PLEASE HELP.
2007-01-07 13:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by loserface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't ask us, ask him! Communication is crucial in a relationship. You need to be able to talk to him about anything. Besides, he'll be able to tell you what he likes better than anyone else!
2007-01-07 13:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him something like a poem thats meaningfull, or draw something for him.
You could even rent a movie you know he will enjoy and watch it together. You could pick him a flower (trust me, men like it just as much as women).
If you dont have much money, I suggest going for a night time walk under the stars and going to a park with a blanket. Sit on the blanket together and just relax.
You could call him out of the blue and tell him how much he means to you, how much you are grateful for having him, or even how happy he's made you.
You could make him dinner one night, and light some candles to make it more romantic.
If all else fails, i recommend asking him what he likes that you could do for him because you love him so much and want to show it.
2007-01-07 13:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so insecure, you are a young vibrant women,close to committing yourself to this man for the rest of your life. If you are having second thoughts , are you sure it's not you. If he is doing everything for you what's the problem. I don't think your being honest with us here. Questioning yourself before a marriage is normal. Being scared is also normal. But if there is ever a time when you are having second thoughts, now is the time to talk to him. If you don't you will be sorry.
2007-01-07 14:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well love isn't all about sex. You can always show him a good time by making him dinner and giving him a massage. Just simple compliments will make you closer to each other. Do little things for him and he'll appreciate it. Or if he's having a rough day don't nag him about leaving his clothes around or anything like that and be um... spontaneous...
2007-01-07 13:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's your answer. Get the hell off the internet and DO something about it! Instead of checking your email, see what he'd like for dinner or something and then make it! Sometimes the nice, little, considerate things make the biggest difference. Basically, get off your butt.
2007-01-07 13:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by sydney_106 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while inserting two fingers of your left hand into his booty hole run your tongue up and down the space between his butt and his nut sack while taking your right hand and jerking the meat stick.
as you get good at this try different variations like sitting on his face while doing this.
just let your inhibitions go and do not be frigid or close minded.
2007-01-07 13:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do something special every now and again like surprise him with a nice dinner or get him small presents every now and again or sweet things like that. Just show him that you care. It doesn't take much to show that you care. I'm sure he'll appreciate those things.
2007-01-07 13:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by anjusmile 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are doing your best and this is not good enough well what can i say? just being yourself and let him be his self will do the trick. dont try so hard this only makes it worse and you might get an ulcer. good-luck.
2007-01-07 13:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reciprocate the kindness and love he shows to you back,and throw in a dinner treat,sexy night of intimacy,and tell him your
true feelings for him and how wonderful and lucky you are too
have him....
2007-01-07 14:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by tomtoride 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldnt have proposed if he doesnt like you the way you are and doen't appreciate your role in the relationship.
I wouldnt change drastically because if it doesnt come naturally, it will dwindle in time. that will be like false advertising.
2007-01-07 13:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by an_awsome_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋