i'm not sure if i'm pregnant my mom said if i am i WILL abort
i'm 13 i'm scared and maybe pregnant what the hell do i do
2007-01-07 13:52:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
no more sex until 5 more years, get another test and get it all taken care of quickly
2007-01-07 13:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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If you are pregnant, please don't do something you will regret the rest of your life. Your baby is depending on you for love and protection. You are old enough to do the right thing.
Forced abortions are ILLEGAL in the United States. No one, including your mother, can force you to abort your child. If she makes you an appointment, refuse to go. If she tries to get you in the car, start yelling, "Call the police!" Do the same thing if she manages to get you to the clinic. You do NOT have to let anyone hurt you and your baby. Be strong.
2007-01-08 10:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are in this situation. First find out if you are pregnant or not. If not then please find some birth control, so you don't have to go through this again. I'm not condoning having sex at such an young age, but what's done is done. As for the abortion part, you do have a choice. If you are okay with it then you already know what you have to do, but there is also adoption or keeping the baby. There are different support systems out there to help you. Talk to your doctor, minister, or another trusted adult. You are not alone, have faith.
2007-01-07 14:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by offroadmolly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you kill an innocent baby? That is just.... Ugh. I hate to say this but it is your fault you got pregnant. So why blame the baby? You shouldn't have had sex at an early age. Your to young to understand what you are doing. Abortion is a big thing and
I, for one, is against it. I would never have dreamed of killing a baby, let alone kill anyone.
Instead of abortion, you should just have the baby and put it in foster care or adoption. I think that is the right thing to do. But hey, it's just my opinon. I just think it is right, instead of abortion. Do you really want to live the rest of your life knowing you killed a baby? I sure wouldn't. Good luck to you. Make sure to think carefully about what you are doing/what you do.
**Personally, I think you aren't really pregnant and is just a kid thinking this is funny and just pulling a prank. But that's just me. =) Once again, good luck.
2007-01-08 11:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your 13 years old, you don't have to listen to your mom about aborting your child because you can give that baby up for adoption to a family who can't have kids, Like my husband and I. You don't have to be scared tell your mom you will talk with your doctor and see what you decide don't let your mother tell you your having an abortion because you know what if you have an abortion you may never be able to have another child again if something goes wrong during the procedure. I would give the baby up for adoption to a family that wants a baby.
2007-01-07 13:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by navy_seabee_wife 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
WHAT!!! I don't care how old you are! If you are old enough to lay down and spread them then you are old enough to do what is right! Honey i know that you are scared out of your mind but abortion is soooo not the way to go. Trust me. I had one and it was about 6 yrs ago and i was 25yrs old. I would not advise anyone to have it done! I cried every night for a month solid. And still to this day even though its 6 yrs later, every year when the month of September rolls around you might as well just forget it. I am a basket case. I go into deep depression and cant work or anything!
As for your mother... Well all she has to say is ABORT,ABORT,ABORT! Well that is so she doesn't have to face her friends and her co-workers letting them know that your are pregnant! It would just RUIN her! Well WHA!!!! Cry me a freaken river! Its not her body its yours . Its not her live its yours!
Tell your mom that this is your decision and if she doesn't want to listen to you then contact me and i will have a word with your mother!
I'm not afraid to speak what is on my mind when it comes to children and there mothers!
Tell her she can or you can contact me anytime!
2007-01-07 14:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by nickole30 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Listen to your mom. (sorry, had to go for about an hour)
My Great-grandmother got pregnant at 13, went away with her mom for 9mos and when they came home, there was a new addition to the family. My Grandmother was raised as her sister and didn't find out until shortly before Great-grandma died.
I had an abortion when I was 16. It was about 5wks along. The sooner you take care of it the better. You and your whole family should have a couple of sessions of family counseling as well.
Hopefully you are not pregnant and this will be a good lesson learned for you.
As far as what you should do... concentrate on school, on fine arts, put your energy into something constructive. Continue to build your relationship with your mom.
2007-01-07 13:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Feyandjeff 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
well make sure you are pregnant first then look into abortion.. most peopel are against it but WOMENS RIGHT TO CHOOSE! imnot sure uf you have much of a choice. your mom could make you. plus it is dangerous to carry a baby at such a oung age. you will most likely miscarry anyways...but if you dont want an abortion then you can always gie it up for adoption..
2007-01-07 14:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test that will tell you whether or not you are pregnant. I'm sorry that no one explained to you that having sex can lead to having a baby. There are many options and adoption is one of them. Do yourself a favor and honor who you are and do not give yourself away to others. At 13 you should find other things to do. Enjoy your childhood, there are many years for having sex when you are older.
2007-01-07 13:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by kimballama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your mom worries/cares for you, don't think she wants to do anything that will not benefit you. She's probably afraid you are not in a position yet, to cope with the responsibility of having a baby at this age. And if you have a baby now, she'll be the one to have to shoulder all your responsibility till you are a little older. She's still held responsible for you. Having a child is a life long responsibility and commitment. Would this be fair on her?
2007-01-07 14:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, make sure that you are pregnant. No one can force you to have an abortion. If you are asking this question than you are having second thoughts.
2007-01-07 13:55:37 · answer #11 · answered by Jackie 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋