Why do I never finish anything in my life? I can't let go of the past and have no motivation or self esteem

Answer 1

It's easy to teach someone that is eager and willing to learn, and there are many willing to help them

It's impossible to teach someone who has no motivation to learn and just wants relief, and few want to waste their time trying. You have to find your own motivation first.

Answer 2

Can't finish anything because you are not sure as to what you want out of life - thus no motivation. Can't let go of the past because you choose to dwell on the past. Self-esteem is also something you have to build on. Try not to let others bring you down. People tend to see us the way we see ourselves. From experience, most people with low self-esteem are really wonderful people that have been dragged down by others. Remember, we teach people how to treat us - so start by being incredibly good to yourself and all else will follow. Good luck and god bless.

Answer 3

You can create the comforts of a career, home and family without being run ragged or seeming smug. Treat each project, plant, pet or job like your baby. Foster its independence or its ability to grow big and strong. Give someone who looks up to you another chance, or turn an error into your unique style by adding your special touch. Choose quality over quantity and love may flourish. You might have the opportunity to nurture some sensual pleasure or acquire a more abundant and fertile environment

Answer 4

you need to talk to your doctor. you probably need some counseling and/or medication. it could be a variety of issues that are causing your problems...depression and add are the first that come to mind.

how was your childhood? were you catered upon? was everything handed to you? if so, being in the real world is tough and you still might rely on someone else to take care of you.

if you were emotionally abused then maybe you don't have the confidence to finish things...don't think you can, easily overwhelmed.

hope you get some answers.

take care,
SD

Answer 5

I dont know what your past holds,but i do know you need to let it go!I You need to live in this moment.I ve done some things in the past,and had horrible things happen to me.I carried them around for years.
I finally realized that my past is gone,I cant change that.My future isnt here yet,all i have for now is today.So just for today I will not lie,cheat or steal.I will not hold onto anger.If i do or say something to someone that isnt right,I make my amends right away,so future looks nothing like the past! JUST FOR TODAY!!!!
I have apologized to those I hurt in the past.Most of them have forgiven,a few of them carry their own resentments toward me,but thats ok.I did what i needed to do,Someday they may forgive me,or not.That will be their right and thats ok with me!