Me and this gurl been friends 4 a year. we got in2 a fight(not physical) and stop being friends.she became friends with myt enemies, talked bad about me ,started rumors etc.now that she sees dat i can live without her and has more friends and it doesnt get 2 me. now, she send people 2 tell me she wants 2 b friends again.should i b her friend again or not????
2007-01-07 13:40:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont bother yourself with insecure people who obviously cant be trusted - even in a fight a good freind has enough respect not to stab you in the back
2007-01-07 13:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by STL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can anyone say backstabber? LOL Ok well Ive been through the same thing! We became friends again but FAR FRIENDS.Far friends is when you guys see each other and say ''Hello! Whats up! how are you? Ok Bye Bye''. Meaning if you bump into each other, you guys will conversate quickly, but it wont be anything like ''Ok i'll meet you at 3:30! I have to tell you something really personal''...NO definitely NOT. Why have an enemy when you can have a friend right? If you're really pissed at her and feel as if you CANT forgive her tell her or her friends straight up.NO I DONT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND.Her loss. To me, a true friend wouldnt get into an argument with me and go and talk shyt about me! Thats just not what 'friends' do. Besides you have other friends and have started new relationships so it's not like you need her anyway! lol Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck. ;)
2007-01-07 21:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was stabbed in the back with my best friends, and I cut all ties with them. They started a rumor with all my msn contacts on my old msn e-mail address. I have since got a new account and new password and everything. I even changed my phone number, after 3 months of not talking, my so called friends started phoning me wanting to be friends again. I just remembered how I got burned from them...I thought no way..and she didn't have the decency to appologize nor stand up for what she did was wrong.
2007-01-07 21:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation and if you want to take the high road, be her friend. That doesn't mean you should (or have to) trust her, though. She could be serious about wanting to be your friend, but untill you're sure, be wary. Look for signs, rumors spread about you, sudden forged friendships with those who birng you down, etc. Be cautious, but be open to the idea that she may actually want your friendship.
2007-01-07 22:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jane D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to have friends then enemies... a good idea about what to do is do a peace treaty thing... like agree to get along.. but still keep your distance from her... be friends, but not best friends.. ya know? make it to where you can sit and talk and pass each other in the hall and smile and to where if mutual friends have get together's, then you two wont kill each other... dont dwell on what happened in the past... move on and talk to her and be friends... not best friends... or even close friends... just.. friends..
2007-01-07 21:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to be friends again, she'll make an effort and talk to you in person. If she apologizes and makes an effort to try to become your friend again, I think you should. But my advice is to keep your distance and never get too close to this friend.
2007-01-07 23:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by music_is_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah not friend, maybe acquaintances, it sounds like too much drama to me for anyone to have to deal with. You know like, is she gonna be my friend today or will she decide she has enough friends today and then try to resume our friendship tomorrow kind if thing. Since you are happy with your new friends, then just tell her to get lost. Maybe she is just trying to get more dirt on you, no one needs that kind of person in their lives.
2007-01-07 21:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Don't do it. You can find better friends. There are billions of people out there, you will not die without her. She is obviously not ready for a real friendship.
2007-01-07 21:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt a real friend would have never gone and started rumors and things about you she just feels stupid for treating you like that and she sees it doesnt really affect you let her suffer
-mel
2007-01-07 21:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you to can work it out than go for it but only if you want to be, but keep in mind she has burned you once can you forgive her for that...
2007-01-07 21:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋