How do I kick my girlfriend and her kid out of my house or should I report her instead?

Question

My girlfriend made a false report behind my back and said i have vicious dogs of course they determined my dogs are not vicious and left.
Now I have to kick the wench out of my house How can I do that ASAP? she has lives with me for 6 months and I pay all the bills and she does not work .....and if I can't kick her out soon then My lawyer Friend told me I could report her for child neglect and he would be put in a foster home.

PART 2.....HOW IT ALL STARTED
My girlfriend told me that I should put her Abusive Son first before my 2 boys .......She is a live in girlfriend and was a possible fiance until she told me that I should put her almost 4 year old son first before my two boys (my Dobermans Troy & Mike) After one of them bit her bratty abusive son that she failed to supervise properly while i was at work .ALSO PLEASE NOTE THAT My girlfriends kid has hit/slapped Troy & Mike (the dogs) and was told never to ever do that again And I told my girlfriend to NEVER leave her kid alone

She failed to listen and let them out of their bedroom and that brat hit one of them so naturally he defended himself from that bully kid
After the biting incident my Girlfriend and i agreed that it was a valuable lesson for the kid to never hit helpless animals
2 months later she asked me to get rid of my boys.NEVER ...I had my 2 Dobermans 3 years before we met....QUESTION...How can I make her realize that her kid is out of control and she is being very selfish.......NEVER...... OVER MY DEAD BODY
...And anyone who thinks that people are better than animals/dogs obviously have no experience with animals and will never understand .....HOW SAD
Please do not answer if you are going to say people are more immportant than humans because people like you are way toselfish for your oppinion to matter to me ........I know that people want a human to change their Diaper when they get old and a dog can't do that for you ....People always wan't something for something

Answer 1

Hey Dolph, sounds like you need to get her out now. This is what you do, you ask her to leave. If she doesn't then you call the police, let them know you have asked her to leave she won't and could they assist you. As long as your name not hers is on the lease, they will assist you.
I would do it before her child causes problems with your pets. Children who act that way often move onto other things. My boys would NEVER do that to a dog. I'm glad you discovered this before you married her. You and your pets deserve better.
I think it's horrible that she did such a thing, I wouldn't bother reporting her to child protective services unless you have witnessed her abusing the child or believe the child is a danger to others. If so then report them, you have an obligation to society to do so.
My pets are as important as my kids, and my kids view our pets as family. She should have been supervising her child around the pets. Period.
I think the whole thing is horrible because now your dogs think kids are like this. Can you get them to have some positive experience with some kids who are responsible around pets? I would hate for your dogs to think this is typical behavior with children.
Get her out now. I wouldn't wait at all, sounds like she has mooched off of you for too long. What a sad sad person she must be, sounds like she doesn't take good care of her child at all. Some people don't understand as a parent it's your obligation to ensure they grow up to be responsible citizens to people and animals. My son Tyler wants to be a veternarian. We have 4 dogs right now, our American Pit Bull Terrier, Our Sharpei, our shihtzu and right now a maltese we are fostering until it's able to be put up for adoption, she was a stray in pretty bad shape but has come a long way and should be able to go to a new home soon. Until this summer we had our sugar glider (she passed away) we haven't gotten another one, we had her for years and years, we have taught our boys you can't just replace a pet with another it's important to pay respect and mourn your pet when they pass not just try to fill the void with a new one. Animals are a gift and not toys.
I believe you can judge a lot about a person by how they treat animals. I hope you can get her out soon. It is sad that she took advantage of you like this. It's also sad with all the people out there who would love to have children and can't she isn't responsible enough to bring her son up right. My husband and I want to adopt a daughter, when I hear about people like this I get angry!

Stand firm Dolph and get rid of her. You and your animals deserve better. Good luck!

Definately change the locks as soon as she is out, like that day if possible. Sounds like she might be the type to come back after your at work..etc.

Answer 2

Dude, you're screwed first of all. If she's lived there longer than 1 month she's established residency. I'm sure she has items there so you can't just kick her out. No matter if she's not on the lease, you CAN'T change the locks either! It's considered an illegal lockout and YOU can get in some sh it over that. It's like this broseph. You took her in, now you don't want her there because her son was bite by one of your muts because he was"abusing it"? Did you physically see him abusing it? I have a 4 year old and a 3 year old, and I have a dog! They can't do THAT MUCH DAMAGE dude! The kid doesn't have a POSITIVE male influence in his life, because your definitely not being one! Maybe if you stepped up, put your dogs after your girl and her son, because they are ONLY DOGS, maybe sh it wouldn't be so bad. Human life comes before an animal, and you don't just throw someone out on the streets(especially if they have a child) because your un-trained mut bit him. If I was that chick I'd get the fu ck out if you where complaing about your vicious dog who bit my child, regardless if it was provoked! I'd of shot the s.o.b, so mad props to her. Your a complainer, and sounds like you're a tree hugger, so yeah, @ this point do whatever. I hope you get your dogs taken away and put down, jerk.

Answer 3

I don't think that people are more important than animals, and there is nothing worse than a bratty, poorly supervised kid.
Kick her out. She doesn't have a lease and doesn't pay, basically she's a guest in your home. You can kick her out whenever you want.
Put her stuff out on the curb. Seriously, you're not her landlord. Maybe call DCF for good measure and maybe they'll take the kid away (and then there will be less stuff to put out on the curb).

Answer 4

Let me just say: "Why would you get involve with someone that has too much baggage if you are not willing to accept everything that comes along with her, in this case her kid!!??" having said that If I were you I would tell her that you are not willing to sacrifice your dogs for her kid, obviously that relationship will never go forward, she has the right to protect her kid, if she is living in your house she has to leave, simple like that...no dramas no nothing....and the next time...so you know...Don't get involve with someone if you are not ready to accept everything that comes with that person, you obviously have your priorities and until you are willing and mature enough to commit yourself into a relationship...save yourself some time and stay away from single moms...We have our own priorities and having another growing kid is not one of them...she should have known this by now! Anyway...just tell her to move out of the house, that you will not in anyway get rid of your dogs, but don't cause more troubles and dramas with that report for child neglect...(that would make you look really bad and will just show how immature you are)

Answer 5

Just let her read what you wrote in this, because if it was my boyfriend talking that way about me he wouldn't have to tell me to leave, I'd already be gone. I would have left the second my kid got bit by a dog (I hope it wasn't serious) and you thought it was the kids fault, dogs can be trained you know, a 4 yr old child can hardly be abusive to 2 grown dobermans. You need to find someone that doesn't have children and that never plans to have children.

Answer 6

First, both of you need to separate yourselves from each other as soon as possible. One of the first signs of unnecesssary trouble is when people start filing unfounded charges against each other. It just brings about many other problems.
Secondly, your your story is a bit jumbled.You have a live-in girlfriend. She's your 'almost fiance,' she's been living in your house with you, your "boys", her four year old son. The four year old hit your "boys" - he was told not to do that anymore (as if a four-year old can fully grasp that behavior pattern as yet, especially against two dobermans).
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If you really have a "lawyer friend", he is the best one to advise you. Sounds as if he knows more about your situation than you have outlined here.



Oops you're having conversations with the answerers(I thoiught we weren't allowed to do that).
Goodluck.
See a lawyer.

Answer 7

You need to get that free loading bit*ch out of your house along with her kids. You pay all the bills and not only you but your two dogs are being abused by them unruly kids of hers. Kick her out, I am sure she can get assistance to get a place to live and feed them brats. If you do not do this, one day, she will sue you if the dog bites the brat after the brat hits the dog and she might win a law suit against you. Get her out and take care of your dogs. I would never put up with what you have. Hit my dog one time, they would be out on the street naked and starving for all I care.

Answer 8

She has no legal right to your house. Ask her to leave by a specific date and put it in writing, see if she will sign it, if she won't just call the cops and tell them she is trespassing and you want her put out. Its not really relevant who did what, shes in your place and you don't want her there anymore. Don't report her to Child Services unless shes done something to her kids, they have real cases to follow and don't need to be sicced on a mom with a bad breakup.

Answer 9

First of all if you loved her you accept her son also. When you took her in, either as a potential wife, or just a squeze, you also took her son. He should have come before your dogs.
Now that you know you don't love her or her son, you have to find them a place to stay before you kick them out. You owe her and her son that much as it was you I would expect who asked her to move in. Tell her it is over, that she needs to get a job and move out asap!
She has another person to consider, her son. It won't be easy for her to get a job, find child care etc. so give her some help. You may not love her or her son, but I would hope you have enough compassion not to trhow her out with a young child to fend for herself.

Answer 10

Animals are better than people in my eye. I have 3 cats and I would put them first before any man. Kick the witch out now if you need help doing this email me and I will be more than happy to assist.