2007-01-07 13:19:24 · 18 answers · asked by jnt 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are unsure then do not have sex. You will know when you are ready. If he insists or tries to go too far then have nothing more to do with him - he's not the right guy for you.
2007-01-07 13:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by zappafan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,if you are having any doubts whatsoever,dont.Do not allow him to force you into doing anything you dont want to,because you dont.You can say no,and you will be glad you waited.You sound quite young,however very smart.You know you arent ready,and dont be afraid to say no.Dont waste your teen years worrying about "pleasing" your boyfriend.There will be plenty of time for adult things when your actually an adult,until then enjoy being a kid.Once that time is gone it doesnt come back.If you dont want to,and you do engage in it,you may just end up regretting it for the rest of your life.Please,dont do it if you do not want to.When you are ready,you will know.That doubt wont be there,until then dont do anything your not comfortable with.Many females,once they get older and look back they regret it,and you have the choice.Make the choice that is right for you.Good luck hun,and have a good night.
2007-01-07 21:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you're not ready, then wait. If your boyfriend truly loves and cares about you, then he will want to wait too until you are truly ready.
And...there is absolutely nothing wrong with admitting that you're not ready for sex. Sex is a big deal, and while it can be absolutely amazing with the right partner, it also comes with big responsibilities and sometimes unintended consequences. Congratulations for having the ability to stand up for what you want and think things through...that's a wonderful quality.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-07 21:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by KristenOne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say no if you are not sure you are ready! And drop a jerk who would try to bully you into doing something you are not fully ready to do.
Also, you need to get good information first about pregnancy prevention and disease protection and to use it EVERY SINGLE TIME no matter what the guy says.
Sex should be something pleasurable to both partners that both really want to do. It should include responsibility, compassion and mutual consent. If not, it's not making love, it's just somebody getting scr*wed.
2007-01-07 21:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready and you do it anyways, your going to regret it. Your relationship comes to a whole new level and if you don't want it, you shouldn't go there. And sex is not exactly fun the first time, you want to make sure you absolutely love the guy.
2007-01-07 21:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by jayaraneda 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you do not know if you are ready, then you are not.
sex is not just about intercourse.
if you want to give your boyfriend something but not the whole thing ( because you might be afraid of getting pregnant) you can do other things that does not involve intercourse. you can use your hand or mouth.
just remember if you are not sure if you are ready to go all the way with your boyfriend, then its is 99% sure you are really not ready.
2007-01-07 21:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by acris46 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you're not ready, then don't! If he still pressures you, he's not worth having as a boy friend
2007-01-07 21:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that you're ready, then you AREN'T ready. And if he really cares about you, he won't pressure you.
2007-01-07 21:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. If you are not ready then you are not ready.
2007-01-07 21:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
make sure your ready you dont want to do anything you will regret....
2007-01-07 21:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by krmzjt21 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋