my AG teacher knows my dad and my grandfather....they are 2 of the best shots(have the best aim)in my county my teacher wants me to join the shooting team that we have and wants my dad and grandfather to help the other kids. I am very good a shooting targets and im only 14 I have tried out for the team a previous year with a broken arm and I made it,i could still aim and shoot, but this year im scared to try out because we have all guys and no girls on the team and the whole time they flirt with me and mess up my concentration I’ve asked them to stop but they wont they messed with the gun I was shooting before last year and messed up the scopes aim, I missed the target and everyone was mad at me my shot was the one that would have won the match and my teacher had chosen to let the competition turn out depend on me, and I lost it it was state to, I upset my teacher and everyone in my school I don’t know what to do I don’t think I could stand one more year of their torment and they know it to, the do it on purpose to upset me, I have 1 friend that stand up for me on the team but now hes gone and cant help I want to so this but im afraid of what might happen,what should I do
2007-01-07 13:12:59 · 3 answers · asked by female football player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look chickie, you are going to have to learn how to deal. These boys don't want to be upstaged by a girl and it's obvious that you can upstage them. They will do anything to trip you up. Watch your back and don't back down. Be who you are and do what you do. Don't let other people dictate to you what you can and can't join. If it is something you want then don't let them take it away from you. This is a hard and cruel world. It isn't fair, but if you want to succeed you have to overcome the obstacles. These boys are just obstacles. Keep your chin up and always guard your stuff against sabotage. The way I see it you can't quit or they win. I support you all the way. Please keep it going. If you need someone to talk to then feel free to email me. I'll give you advice and moral support if you want it. Good Luck!
2007-01-07 13:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's happening to you is called harassment, and it truly is no longer ok. in reality, it truly is unlawful. confer consisting of your instructor and tell her or him precisely what's happening. in case your coach doesn't pay interest, go on your vital or tell yet another instructor. Your college has the duty of keeping you from harassment. best for you for sticking with this!!!!! by way of how... i imagine you've hit a nerve consisting of your question. someone is going round and giving low ratings to all those who helps you. i imagine that shows that there are human beings accessible who do not imagine ladies could play "boy" events. And that proves why you want to keep doing it!! ladies can do some thing that boys can do.
2016-12-28 08:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by kostyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell someone its not right
2007-01-07 13:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋