he has never have this problem to me is a problem he says its normal
2007-01-07 13:05:22 · 36 answers · asked by teresag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is normal!
Try watching them with him, maybe try some of the things you see! It may spice up your marriage a lot!
2007-01-07 13:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i might want to assert accepted it takes position. Is it "accepted" i'm particular there'll be a buncha posts from married female speaking about how this is deceptive this and that. What maximum married female do not comprehend is that gazing porno has little or no to do with something about the spouse and alot to do with that adult men in most cases are extremly visually oriented. do not worry i'm particular you dad nevertheless loves your mom he merely likes to look @ stuff on the internet. I recommend this is really plastered everywhere which makes it even troublesome for strong Christian adult men to dodge @ cases. GL
2016-12-01 23:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be normal for a man to have sexually fantasies, but to me if you are married all of the porn watching should end. I get so sick and tired of the whole I am a man and that is what I do routine. When you get married you spouse should be the one to turn you on not some face plastic women who have no morals and make money taking off their clothes. To me Lusting after another woman is a sin. Why would you want you husband to get all hot and sweaty watching another woman and then want to have sex with you. I am sorry but it's wrong. People just don't think this is wrong but, I do. What makes you think that one day he won't want to go out and find another woman. Men don't always use their brains. Marriage should be between you and your spouse ONLY.
2007-01-07 13:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by blue88210 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok, I must say that any man who is in a relationship that finds himself watching porno is in a state of denial to say that it's ok.
I personally think porno is a way for a man or woman to cheat on the other person without actually going physical. But I also feel that anyone who goes to the strip club is doing the same except a more physical thing than watching a porno.
I find porno and strip joints very disgusting and degrading, let alone disturbing.
But that is something you have to find for yourself, if you're ok with it, then whatever, but if you're not, then you need to let your husband know.
2007-01-07 13:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by !?! 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yes is more normal than you probably think, it is a problem only when someone watches so much that it interferes with his/ her daily life or responsibilities, however if you let him know that you do not like him to watch porn then at least he should stop doing it when you are present, you say that he just started watching porn but what if he had been doing it for years and you did not have a clue? what if he keeps doing it when you are not at home? what if you accept it, and join him? there is lots of books about this habit, go to Amazon .com and check some real good books about it. get informed and then act accordingly.
good luck!!!
2007-01-07 13:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it's hot. Have you ever actually watched one? And trust me when I tell you that most women feel just like you do. Imagine if it was something that you could share with your husband???? He would think you were the greatest wife ever. Men are very visual by nature. Women tend not to be. But if you gave it a chance, I am sure that he will watch all of five seconds of the movie before he is all over you. You watching it would be the biggest turn on in the world to him.
2007-01-07 13:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Chula 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's normal unless he is watching porn and neglecting your relationship and your sex life together. Sometimes we all just want to masturbate. It's healthy behaviour. Some of us enjoy visual stimuli when mastubating. Typically, those some of us who enjoy visual stimuli are men although some women do enjoy pornography over a good imagined fantasy.
Now, we could go all into the opposing feminist theories about porn and whether or not it is degrading to women, but I'm sure you can form your own opinions. Think about it clearly and rationally first. Don't just go with your gut ignorance.
2007-01-07 13:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
chulita is a very wise woman!
Follow her advice - get over your typical narrow-minded and prudish behavior that causes divorces and unhappy marriages, and sit down with him and watch them together.
Better yet: Go with him to the store where he buys / rents them, and pick one out for yourself - or even better - go there by yourself, and surprise him with one - wearing your sexiest lingerie, and carrying a sex toy with you like one of the ones used in the movie you have, and tell him it is there so he can use it on you, the way it is used in the movie...
Trust me here - it'll fan a HUGE flame in - NOT only your sex life - but your entire relationship!!!
PLEASE - try it - for your sake, his sake, and the sake of longevity of the marriage - you won't believe the difference it'll make - all he will be able to think about (AND TALK ABOUT) at work all day is how sexy and wonderful his wife suddenly has become, and how much he loves you...
Hell, you may even get flowers!
2007-01-07 20:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Michael, Count de Berçon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal not too, remember movies is something that was rare and hard to get a hold of 50 years ago. Were men abnormal before that? However as long as they don't promote violence, or act that you don't want. Whats the harm.
2007-01-07 13:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if he all alone but it should never interfere with your marriage. For example, if you are away on a business trip and he has an urge, that's ok but he watches it all the time. He has a PORN problem.
2007-01-07 15:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you should grab a sit beside him. That's such a turn on after a while because you won't be watching it for too long, it will be watching you. Try it and see what happens.
2007-01-07 16:44:42 · answer #11 · answered by Phatbum!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋