MEN ONLY! What are the signs that your wife is cheating on you?

Answer 1

She changed her habits - is suddenly coming home later - has an "increased work load", and has taken on extra hours - she is VERY SUDDENLY much happier with life - has more energy - there are LOTS of signs, if you have taken the time to know the woman well enough - but I bet you haven't, if she is cheating on you.

Anyone who cheats does it for a reason - it's not just due to "the availability of another sex-partner" - something is going unfulfilled - it can be communication, sexual excitement (have you become boring in bed?), romance (or rather lack thereof on the partner's side), feeling ignored or "taken advantage of" (I do all the bleeding work - you've become a couch potato).

Look at what has changed since you had that "in love" feeling, and it was mutual - and go back to doing the things that attracted her to you in the first place!

There is this story about an older couple out for a Sunday drive in a car with a bench front seat - it is a classic - they had their first date in that car, fell in love in the car, and had some very memorable moments in it...
So - this day, as they ride down the winding country road, the lady looks at the empty space on the seat, between herself and her husband at the wheel, and asks:
"What happened to us... I remember when we used to sit so close to one another - we would hold hands - I would have my hand on your leg, or ... (blushes)..."

Husband looks at the same empty space on the seat - looks at his wife - looks at his seat - looks back at his wife, and says"
"Well... I haven't moved..."

What is the husband doing differently, that the wife might be seeking to compensate for outside of the marriage?

The woman isn't doing it for the sex, but for the attention she is receiving from the suitor - the attention she is no longer receiving from hubby.

Do you still open the car door for her?

Do you ever go on a date?

Is conversation reduced to during commercials?

When is the last time you brought her a dozen roses? Oh - right - last Velentine's - when it's an obligation... Try to surprise her with a bouquet tomorrow. Show up at her place of work with it, in front of ALL her co-workers - or - if she is a stay-at-home, take a LOOONG luch and bring it home to her - you just might not need to look for signs anymore if you do that...

Answer 2

The same way you can tell when a man cheats on her. Its all the same. Lack of interest could be the first sign. I told my EX that when I quit talking he better start wondering because at that point I'm definitely sad about something. Lot of men out there to make her smile and make her feel pretty. Remember , you use to think so at one time, right?Women can answer that better than a man can because the ones that were cheated on still don't know why their ex- wives left them. They should of seen the signs BEFORE she cheated and it could have been fixed before she strayed.Buy you a small recorder and put it under her car seat where it will be activated when she starts talking on her cell phone and retrieve it when she goes to bed and play it back. I had a friend do that and his EX denyed it until he let her hear the tape. 38 years of marriage down the drain real fast.Wheres theres a will , theres a way.

Answer 3

Most women can't hide there affair. Many signs from

Singing and smiling for no reason
she will iether talk a lot more and fast or alot less

Day-To-Day Behavior,
Work Habits, Conversational Clues,

Personality Changes,
Physical Appearance,

Financial Affairs,

Telephone Tip-Offs,

How He Relates To You,

Car Clues,

Computer Use

Answer 4

aright here is a list and remember to vote me best answer thx.

1. She isn't enjoying sex with you as much as she did before.
2. She comming home later than usual
3. She smells like mens prefume
4. If her stories don't add up like if she tells you shes going to the store and when she comes back if u ask her where shes been and she takes a long time to answer or if she tells you like a friends house
5. if thier are numbers on her cell phone that you've never seen before

Though out of all these things the biggest is if shes acting weird or not like herself b/c then you know for a fact some thing is up

I hope I've helped and I wish you the best of luck :)

Answer 5

Truthfully and honestly, there's really no sure fire way to know this for sure. Unless a woman is honest enough to tell her husband or gives some signs or other tell tale things, the only way that I can think of is having a very deep spiritual relationship with her. If you feel a change in how things feel when you're around her then you know something is wrong.

Answer 6

Hmmmm several possible things. Change of habit is always a sign, even behavior. If shes been very secretive as of late or blows up easily, theres another. The best way is to first be sure that your being level headed about this then start at square 1.

Answer 7

If she is working late, coming home wee hour, getting better looking than before, dressing better, hair is better and smelling better, better thongs, if she doesn't pay attention to you. Those are all the signs of a cheating wife.

Answer 8

Men really can't tell but we do get clues.sometimes 1) unexplained absences over and over. 2) changing dress and make-up 3) loss of interest in sex. 3) a feeling of her pull away from you as a partner. She is distancing her self. 4) ask her face to face and if she looks to the left she is lying. Good luck

Answer 9

well when my wife cheated on me?first thing when she came home she took a shower and change under wear?she hide her cell phone or turn it off and set up pass word so you couldn't open it.took more money out of the bank then needed.wouldn't have much sex with me.then the finally days wipe out the bank account came home told me she leaving me for a other guy.and left.

Answer 10

Being distant from the current spouse. This means, she doesn't want to be around her spouse or becomes easily frustrated with him for minor things. She finds excuses to go places or going places more frequent without her husband. Doing things she normally doesn't do. They may hide their cell phone bill. Sometimes women will will not want to have sex with spouse.