she feels like i dont care about her, but i really do its just that things have been a little stressful in both of our lives and its we havent been treating each other the way we usually do. i am a junior in high school and i am want to know what you think i should do?
2007-01-07 12:49:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just have to calmly explain to her what you are going through...you have to learn to not take your stress out on someone that didn't cause you stress....If she cares about you she will try to understand. Good luck...
2007-01-07 12:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What have you done to make her think you don't care ?? You are both obviously still young. There will always be times when you both get angry and say things you don't really mean. It's just life !! All you can do is apologise to her if you feel you've done something wrong and hope for the best. Maybe take her out to a movie or go to a favourite place you both enjoy. You must always remember to talk about everything, don't let problems build up between you, communication is the key to a long and happy relationship. Best of luck
2007-01-07 22:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a junior in high school I wouldn't worry just too much about it ,,,, You are going to fall in love a hundred times a year at that age ,,,, Besides it would be smart for young people to get as wide a range of acquaintances as they can while they are still young ,,,, Play the field ,,,, find out what and who's out there ,,,,, Don't be so ready to tie yourself down to just one person so quick ,,,,Date as many people as you can ,,,, There's nothing wrong with that ,,,, The broader the range of acquaintances a person has the better really ,,,,, This enables you to make a wiser choice as to just who you want to settle down with when you are ready for a more involved or serious relationship ,,,,, Who knows ,,,, Tying yourself down to just one person too young just might cause you to miss meeting Mr. or Miss right ,,,, As for your present dilemma ,,,, All you can do is tell her that things aren't really what they seem ,,,, She's either going to believe you or she isn't ,,,, You have no control over that ,,,, If she doesn't believe you then tell her that maybe it's time for her to find what she's looking for somewhere else ,,,, I wouldn't put my life on hold waiting too long though ,,,, There are too many other fun things to do out there than to worry about something silly like this ,,,,,Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-01-08 00:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince her that you know what you are doing and tell her that you just have a lot of things going on and that you both need to try to have a little more patients with each other.. If she really means that to you then make her know it.
2007-01-07 20:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by minoritygurlgd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of stress you can not manage at your age? If you have that kind of problems in High School image in 10 years with two kids and bills to pay, etc.
2007-01-07 20:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by pelancha 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her..tell her straight up that you care about her! theres no way she could get mad at that..itd make her feel better too..tell her how the stress in your lives is getting to you..but you dont want it to come inbetween the two of you! if worse comes to worse you guys will take a break...and because youre asking for help..i know you dont want that! youre in high school..stress is everywhere..as well as drama...just relax..talk to her
2007-01-07 20:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by RiRi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to realize women are not like men they think differently and they need different things women think with emotions She is feeling disconnected and she needs you to not only listen to her but to hear her with empathy. Show her affection without making it fore play. Just sincere affection.
They have 5 basic emotional needs to be fulfilled. they are not the same for all but they fit with-in these categories 1)Affection 2)Conversion 3)Honesty and openness 4)Financial support 5) Family commitment
2007-01-07 21:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just take a break for a while and let things cool off until both you both can be together without the stress
2007-01-07 20:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk. Communication always helps.
AA is oblvious to a womans feelings. You both have just hit a small bump nothing to freak over.
2007-01-07 20:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by breakingpoint56 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her what you just typed. Things aren't always going to be hunky-forky and when you learn how to survive the rollercoaster of relationships, that's the key to making it last. Good luck.
2007-01-07 20:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋