I am trying to get my gf pregnant, but when i get hard, its not all the way hard, now im NOT impotent, and its not limp, it's hard enough to go in her, and she says i am perfect down there but i dont believe her and she says that i just have a big dick, and what im trying to figure out if it is normal , is a guy possed 2 be real hard to get a girl pregnant? Guys and girls with experience please reply with honest details or anwsers, thanks ppl.
2007-01-07 12:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Calm down, take a step back and breathe. You can't get fully hard because you are worrying about getting your GF pregnant.
Think about it this way, most pregnancies happen by accident, in a moment of passion, when a condom or other forms of birth control are forgoten right? Ok so go back to making love and forget about the making baby and it will happen on its own.
The size of your penis has nothing to do with whether or not she will get pregnant.
My best getting pregnant tip: Don't have sex every single day and when you do have sex, try different times of day. If you are really serious about getting pregnant by a fertility monitor. They aren't very expensive and they sell them in the same section as the condoms and pregnancy tests at the drug store. They work the same way as a pregnancy test and will give you a good idea of when to have sex in order to make a baby.
Otherwise, I'm sticking to my first bit of advice, stop trying to make babies and concentrate on making love and the rest will take place naturally.
2007-01-07 12:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Amy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you'd have to ask, but the hardness has NOTHING to do with the ability to get pregnant. It is the deposition of sperm that gets a female pregnant.
But to answer your other question, not getting fully hard can be a sign of underlying problems, so I would get that checked out asap.
2007-01-07 20:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes semen to get pregnant.....I don't know what has happened to sex-ed over the years but I think people are skipping out on it. Wear a condom (if it will fit..since you are so big.....<-------I was being sarcastic there) Seriously, wear a condom and maybe go to the Health Dept and get some info on sex.
2007-01-07 20:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how hard you are as long as you ejaculate inside of her. Sounds like you may be feeling the pressure of trying to conceive, which can effect your sexual performance. Anywho, don't worry about it and just enjoy. Good luck!
2007-01-07 20:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by lysistrata411 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL FROM WAT I KNOW UM I DONT THINK THAT U HAVE TO BE RELLY HARD BUT JUST HARD ENOUGHT THAT U CAN GET IT IN HER UM I THINK IT IS NORMAL CUZ A LOT OF PPL TALK BOUT THAT SO UM I GUESS JUST TRY TO GET TURNED ON MORE BY HER.LIKE BUY HER A SEXXY OUTFIT AND TELL HER TO WEAR IT TO BED OR JUST UM SPEND MORE TIME WIF HER IM SRUE THATS U WILL CONCEIVE WEN THE TIME IS RIGHT KK<3>
2007-01-07 20:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by hollister girl 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are to young to be having sex. If you were old enough you'd know that all you need to do is ejaculate.You don't need to be completely erect to ejaculate.
2007-01-07 20:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes ejaculation inside the vagina and ovulation to get a girl pregnant.
2007-01-07 20:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋