I was raised to think that it is wrong to like the same gender, but since I have got to college, my views are rapidly changing. I still like guys. There are some guys here that I like, and there are some girls also. I have thought about what I would like to do to some of the girls if they were bisexual or a lesbian, but they are not. I am really confused. So far I have told 5 people about who I like, and they were ok with it, but I am afraid that if I tell her, she wont treat me the same, or else I will be too embarassed to be around her anymore. Please help me.
-Beth
2007-01-07 12:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by smallvillefanatic1987 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are probably bisexual; however, before you tell her that you like her, learn to accept yourself as bi first. It will raise your confidence level and make you more attractive; plus, it will make it so you aren't "embarrassed" when you are around her. if she treats you different, than she isn't that great of a friend/gf prospect, now is she?
2007-01-07 12:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by guitarherofairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was also taught that it was wrong to like the same gender but I ended up falling in love with a girl. I met her on the computer though so I don't have any advice to give you about telling someone in person. If doesn't like you back and is a true friend she will tell you that and will be supportive of who you are.
2007-01-08 00:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Beth! first of all...before looking yourself as bisexual and coming out , I think you must try it first with a women you find her attractive and you are sure she is a lesbian/bisexual. Then, if you really like it you must give some clues to the girls you like in college, maybe they are also confused and would like to experiment with you, or they are bisexual but they dont know you are so they dont show themselves as "bisexual". Good luck!!!
2007-01-07 23:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Erika C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honnestly I think she wouldnt treat you the same, cruel but true. I am not gay in any which way and I know that would creep me out. Why dont you get together with some local known lesbians...that might help
2007-01-07 20:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their's nothing wrong with being bisexual, I know a few girls who are bisexual and I don't treat them any differently from a girl who is stright
2007-01-07 20:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the enemy, satan, will put confusion in your mind to make you believe certain things about yourself that are untrue. Now is the time to accept Christ into your life and ask for Help. He will never hurt you or fail you. Jesus does not count your sin, or shun you or make you feel worthless. He Loves you and will never turn away from you or stop loving you. The devil does not want you to turn your life over to Christ, he wants you to be with him into eternity, but that is not your destiny. God desires to give you a life of Love, Health, LIFE and prosperity. Praying for you in e. tx, Sharon
2007-01-07 20:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by pixelchix 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only time will tell if you like women, and as far as you friend is concerned, give it time and get to know her better. I wish you well with your outcome.
2007-01-07 20:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be who you are, even if your still trying to figure that out. Be yourself and to hell with what people think of you!
2007-01-07 20:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by hapymom03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, just follow your heart. we just live once. we need to make the most of our stay here on earth. Godbless. Be true. Be you!
2007-01-07 20:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by Janus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone hits on there own gender. You make be bi.
2007-01-07 20:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋