I have 2 best friends. We are a group of 3 all the time, and really close to each other, but there is this other girl too. She is trying to steal one of my best friends, and all 3 of us are mad about it because she is really annoying and not nice at all, and really obsessive. How do we get rid of her?
2007-01-07 11:43:30 · 15 answers · asked by marie73 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all just because she is not nice to you dont mean you have to be "not nice" to her. two wrongs dont make a right. just give her a chance. good friends are hard to come by. and i understand that it has always been u three before now, but you really should just try....then if things dont work out just let her know how you feel and i mean all three of you not just one of you. sorta like the leader of the pack. you wouldnt want someone being mean to you cause you wanted to be their friend now would you? so dont be mean to her if it comes down to it. take care and good luck.
2007-01-07 11:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well may be you should first try to get to know her, because she might not be as bad as you think, if you get to know her and you still don't like her just tell her that "you know______ your nice and all, but i just don't think that you should hang out with us, there is already enough of us and we want to keep the way it is, sorry but, i know there are a group of friends out there that are just right foor you!" and make sure to be nice about it, I've been in her shoes before and i know what its like to be denied from a group
2007-01-07 19:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Balla Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Nice and tell her to lay off. Getting ugly about it, makes you come off as hateful, and personally, wouldn't you rather be known as someone who takes the high road, as opposed to being like the girl you all are upset with?
2007-01-07 19:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by chrissystout7679 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all else fails be a *****!My friends dumped me so i can ealily relate exept i wasn't the annoying one they were my best friend sand they dmped me for her...watch out girl
2007-01-07 19:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to be her friend. And even if u r a group it wouldnt kill you to make it a group or 4, would it?
2007-01-07 19:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is GROW UP.
You can't remain a trio, blocking others out forever....People need other friends for other reasons.
Stop trying to be the evil chicks from "Mean Girls"!!!!
2007-01-07 19:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steal one of your friends? Do you own her? Boy, are you selfish or what? Friends, you can never have too many of them. With your attitude, I'm surprised you have any at all!
2007-01-07 19:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That should be up to the friend she is trying to "steal" not you guys.
2007-01-07 19:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply explain to her that you don't really want to be friends with her and give her some evidence. If she doesn't leave you alone, as long as you don't like scream at her and you ask her politely to leave you alone then it's herassment...
2007-01-07 19:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give her a chance. I got one of my best friends in school that way.
2007-01-07 19:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by justafren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋