my boyfriend said that he wants to lose his virginity 'naturally'. he said he wanted to put it in half way then take it out and put a condom on.
is this a good idea? im uncertain of what i want to do.
2007-01-07 11:35:48 · 10 answers · asked by CHANNY 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sure, if you want to increase your chance of becoming pregnant. Make sure you realize one thing...it only requires one drop of "Pre-ejaculate" to impregnate a female. When a male becomes aroused and has an erection, he produces pre-ejaculate which seeps out the opening of the penis. Sticking it in for even a millisecond is all it takes for sperm to reach it's destination.
2007-01-07 11:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by S H 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I seriously doubt that you're going to get pregnant because he stuck it in halfway. Let us be realistic here.
But there are other forms of protections if he doesnt want to wear a condom. There are foams, sponges. Look it up. if you're nervous about it, use another form of contraception for the first 'stroke' then have him put on a condom.
2007-01-07 20:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by kaye t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea. Men produce pre-ejaculate for lubrication and this sometimes has active sperm in it. Don't take a chance.
2007-01-07 19:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by waltnsue2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! CHANNY
You OWE IT TO YOURSELF to not give in to a guy.
Losing it 'naturally' is getting married FIRST!
You hardly EVER stay with your first boyfriend.
You don't owe him a thing!
If he leaves you because you won't give in---that was all he wanted ANYWAY!
2007-01-07 19:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else, especially if you're not on the pill. You don't want to risk a pregnancy!
2007-01-07 19:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by dks64 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have him put the condom half on --- or no deal'
2007-01-07 19:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by lyyman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he can do that when he puts a ring on your finger and the two of you exchange vows.
2007-01-07 19:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably already lost his virginity to his hand. So just say no!
2007-01-07 21:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no. safe sex (with condom) all the time, all the way in.
don't leave home without them!
2007-01-07 19:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body, your choice...
Trust me... if you let him get away with it this one time, he'll want it that way everytime!!!
2007-01-07 19:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋