i have a friend she alwys says negative stuff about me shealways calls me stuff like dum-dum & idiot and its really starting to get to me so how do i make her stop?
2007-01-07 11:20:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well first off, she's not your friend.
If you want her to stop, be the adult and pull her off to the side and let her know that you don't find that to be funny, and if she continues, then you can't hang around her anymore.
If she's doing those things when ya'll are around people, she's doing it to get attention, but she's truly not getting the respect she's aiming for.
If she starts getting defensive, and she probably will, then let her be until she apologizes for her behavior.
2007-01-07 11:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by chrissystout7679 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make another person do or not do anything. Negative people are not happy people. Get away from this person Friends do not hurt one another find a real friend.
2007-01-08 01:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I wouldn't call that a friend..
Second off why would you want a friend like that, if they have to say bad stuff about you to make their self feel better you are better off without them
2007-01-07 19:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by tiggerslily2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a friend, you need to find someone who is actually a real friend. Real friends don't call you names and make you feel bad about yourself. Good luck.
2007-01-07 19:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by hollywood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does that then she is not ur real friend! u should start calling her names and see how she likes it just always be negitive to her then u tell her that she does the same thing to u and see what happens
2007-01-07 19:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by osmosis 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her!If someone tells me im an idiot,ohhh i get so mad,eww.like i ll say ohh look whos talkin!
2007-01-07 19:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Zoey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how it makes you feel and ask why she says that stuff to you. like does she really think that all about you.
~~~~ Good Luck ~~~~
2007-01-07 19:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by XoXo.ShyEyez.XoXo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her if u want to be my friend don't call me does insult because they hurt my feelings and if she does it again then she is not the right friend
2007-01-07 19:23:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to stop... she doesn't actually sound like a friend to me!
2007-01-07 19:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋