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My flat mate has started having an affair with a married woman who lives near us. My flat mate is quite besotted with this woman, I've told her that:
a) she shouldn't be seeing a married woman behind her husband's back
b) she shouldn't do it on our door steps

My flat mate tells me that I'm just jealous because we once were in a relationship.

Now this neighbour has started flirting with me and has asked my flat mate if all three of us could come over to her place for dinner with her husband!

How do I tell my flat mate about my suspicions without her throwing it all back in my face?

2007-01-07 11:18:39 · 9 answers · asked by Ella 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

a flat mate is someone you share an apartment or flat with

2007-01-07 11:29:29 · update #1

Carla, you don't have to be comfortable with who I sleep with. As long as I am, that's alright!

2007-01-07 23:22:55 · update #2

9 answers

no affairs are good. they lead to heartache and it`s always the innocent that loose out. do u get the feeling that most of the answers here are from yanks? lol

2007-01-08 03:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0 0

as a bloke i can only answer this from a mans point of view (soz) but if it was me in your jimmy choos i`ld have to tell that married one that just because i swing that way doesn't mean my morals are as low as hers! you have done the right thing by telling your mate how it is but as you are just her mate you have to let her live her life and learn from her own mistakes and can only be there to be a shoulder to cry on. P.S. GREAT PHOTO two happy people, whats wrong with that!!!

2007-01-08 08:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by dogbob 2 · 0 0

Try to be honest to her. First, tell her your really concerned about this situation and the pain she could suffer if she keeps her relationship. Make it clear it doesn't have to do with you being jealous, you're her friend and you just wanna be that, a good friend who tells the truth.

If she doesn't trust you, just let her face the truth. Be her friend and clean her tears when she finally realizes her mistake.

2007-01-07 19:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Being used? yes. My f*** buddy keeps asking me to bring my friend. it means they have no morals or respect.

2007-01-08 11:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Hybrid 2 · 0 0

What the hell is a flat mate?

2007-01-07 19:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 1 3

Sorry but did -ts- seriouly say he didnt know what a flat mate is!!! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

2007-01-07 21:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Chey 3 · 1 1

sort it out ..... if you don't want to do it don't


good luck

2007-01-08 15:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0 0

Dunno what a flate mate is either, but I think you should all just jump in a pile!

2007-01-07 19:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by BAARAAACK 5 · 0 2

leave her too it......dont get involved!...

2007-01-08 08:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0 0

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