If your boyfriend/girlfriend went through your closet and searched beneath piles of clothes and books just to read your personal journal when you weren't around. What do you do? What do you say to that person?
2007-01-07 10:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by manthapoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd be upset if they read it, and furious if they'd dug through my belongings to find it (bad enough if they read it if it was sitting out in the open)...
Discuss the issue of privacy with them and trust...depending on their responses, they may not be boy/girlfriend material anymore...
2007-01-07 10:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you think you can handle somebody else knowing your life like that then there won't be a problem. The only problem is loosing the purpose of your journal. It serves as the most private part of your life. You'd be loosing that very secret to your sister. The only benefit I can see is that you'll probably form a connection with your sister through these secrets which your journal contains. If it has any secrets to begin with.
2016-05-23 05:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be totally mad! i mean, seriously, what do they need to find out from my journal that they can't ask ME about??!?!? Seriously, i wouldn't dump them or anything, i would just say, "Why didn't you just ask me, i am honest with you, you can trust me. And please, don't go through my stuff without asking like that! What the hell is wrong with you?" I would be mad for a long time.
2007-01-08 10:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a betrayal of trust. and you would do well to look a bit closer at the relationship, any one that will stoop that low will never trust you, so why are you with them. If they can not ask you straight out and accept your answer then they would be history in my book
2007-01-07 11:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them they just lost youre trust and they have to earn it back. tell them that the have to earn that trust back everyday and you just cant give it freely no more. how could you if someone went to so much trouble to find it.If something is written and im at a friends house i dont go and read it because its there bussiness not mine. I feeel uncomftorbale reading my kids mail when they ask me to. rember trust is earned and not given freely. no let them prove you can trust them .
2007-01-07 10:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very disrespectable of a person to do that.
u tell them to respect your belongings and not bother
your stuff.
give the person a warning and say how would u like it if the cards
were turn and i went thru your stuff.
anyway, dont worry about it.
2007-01-07 10:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i personally dont know what i would do ill probably juss never talk to him, cuz i mean that sum serious issues by him doubtin me cuz i know dat why he did dat...i mean why else juss cuz he was bored whateva i would dump hes *** as soon as i end slappin him!!! i no no need fo violence but hey dats my way to fix it
2007-01-07 11:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by neli91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me when i was younger, my step mom got it and read it to the whole family and it was so personal and detailed in private ways i was so imbarrased and cryed for so long over it....... after that i never wrote in it again
2007-01-07 10:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be upset and i wwould asky they read it and try to reason with them the importance of privacy
2007-01-07 10:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad.
2014-08-29 17:18:07 · answer #10 · answered by William 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋