2007-01-07 10:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
My sister is 17 and she's pregant, tell her when u are ready. i thought my parents were going to blow up on her or kick her out, but they dont really mind as long as she is going to take care of it and not leave it with them
2007-01-07 10:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by DiamandaG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this same ordeal...I got pregnant and it took me two weeks, after I found out, to tell my mom...lets just say I had the most fear of my mom at the time I saw the positive ept test...I was more worried what she was going to say to me then what I was going to do with a baby...I finally got the courage to tell her and she was very understanding...(even my friends were worried that she would go crazy on me) But if I wouldn't have told her I would have ended up having more things to deal with then I could handle...She went to every doctor appointment...she would sit on the floor and we would watch tv while she had her hand on my belly waiting for my daughter to kick or move. My mom was a young mother and her whole life she hoped I would never be in that situation...we shared in my pregnancy and became even closer then we had ever before...she never had time to be happy about her pregnancies.
I am scrapbooking my daughters life and I asked my mom what her reaction was and she said she was more disappointed because I chose to hide it from her, and she was sad because she thought we were more open with each other then that, she was also hurt because she was not the first to know.
Give your mom the chance to know, she may surprise you!
2007-01-08 07:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and my biggest fear is ending up pregnant but my mom had a baby 7 months ago so thats kind of helpin me to stay a virigin but what i would do if i was in your situation is pick a day and start talkin to her about how you have been feeling and you think you might be pregnant then she will make you take a test other wise just tell her because once you start showing she will notice and who nows maybe she has a vibe that you already are if you havent been feeling good but maybe she will help you good luck and hope all goes well have a baby is a wonderful thing its away to show love
2007-01-07 11:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by mikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mother so she can help you through the pregnancy...and give her time to get over the fact that you're pregnant BEFORE you're suddenly in labor. If you're worried about telling her, I assume this is a surprise, unplanned pregnancy. In that case, you need her help even more. Beside, it's not like you're going to hide it from her forever, and the longer you DO hide it, the more you have to explain ("Why didn't you tell me earlier?") so tell her now!
2007-01-07 11:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How far along? If you are young and less than 2 months along I might not mention it yet. The risk of miscarriage is still there. Once 3-4 months though you have to fess up.
2007-01-07 10:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by luvfurypassionenergybabe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, my mom always says to me that she'll love me the same amont even if I get pregnant...just set aside a day and go out w/her and then tell her.
hope I helped...good luck!
2007-01-07 10:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by QuizGirl122533 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face your fears and tell her. Do it for the baby's well being, you're going to be fine.
2007-01-07 11:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Emerald Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her. You need to start receiving prenatal care immediately.
2007-01-07 10:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her because u may need medical attention before u deliver
2007-01-07 11:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by victoria b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her for your sake and for the sake of your child.
2007-01-07 11:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by dks64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋