my friend thought i told her secret but i didnt and now im a little mad a t her how can i forgive her
2007-01-07 10:51:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should tell her that you didn't like being accused of telling her secret because depending on how long you guys were friends have you ever told another secret of hers. Tell her to be more careful of the things she tells other people. Tell her to only tell people she trusts since someone is letting her business out
2007-01-07 10:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out and explain your side. If she doesn't believe you then, there is nothing to forgive because, she isn't really your friend. If it is just a simple misunderstanding between the two of you, just try to put it behind you and go from there. We learn from our mistakes. It isn't like she told a lie about your personal life and caused grief. You can turn the other cheek and be the bigger person.
2007-01-07 11:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first a secret shared is no longer a secret, If you know some thing and do not want others to know do not tell any one, this is a lesson she should have learned, and as for being a secret keeper, where does that put you, , You know a secret and what are you supposed to do with it, all it did was make her feel better for dumping it on you and then tying your hands , so next time some one asks if they can tell you a secret, tell them no
2007-01-07 10:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the saying turn the other cheek. Here's youre chance to show it. I know it may bother you but dont let her see it. If you didnt tell her secret then why feel guilty over it.Dont show her she hurt you that is a power some people enjoy.
2007-01-07 10:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just testing u to see if u did or u will admit it.
stop worrying, friends do this to test your trust.
just be nice and get over it.
it will bring the both of u closer together in the long run
2007-01-07 10:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to supply more info before this question can be answered. aWhy does she think you told ? Who told her ? Follow up with more to consider
2007-01-07 10:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by MAGGIENICE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not good at forgiveing , if youve done me wrong ill remember it forever so my answer is you dont sorry
2007-01-07 10:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all u can do is talk to her about the situation and hope for the best dont worry
2007-01-07 10:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you can call her/him and tell him/her srry. Or you can them a letter! I've done that before!
2007-01-07 10:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proof, prove to her that you didn't open your mouth and if she fails to say she's sorry...Move On!
2007-01-07 10:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋