2007-01-07 10:33:32 · 34 answers · asked by helix 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i mean will getting married to somone who believe in your dreams.. but from your side you just cant feel the enough sexual attraction
2007-01-07 10:36:54 · update #1
It's very important. Sex in marriage is more than a physical act. It's a way to reconnect with your partner.
2007-01-07 10:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be selfish and unfair of you to marry someone that you have no chemistry with. Why would you consider entering into a marriage with someone you are not sexually attracted to?
Sex may not be the most important thing in marriage but it's definitely up there! I think will surprise you just how important it becomes if you marry this person.
Marriage is difficult enough when mature adults who love and respect each other enter into it. It takes a lot of work and commitment to maintain a successful marriage. A satisfying sexual relationship is a beautiful and exciting thing, you would only be cheating yourself and your spouse if you are unable to share that with each other.
I think you would be better off staying single, when the right person comes along, you'll know it. Good luck.
2007-01-07 10:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage cannot work without chemistry.
You do not want to find yourself years down the road forcing your self to have sex with the person or cheating. That person deserves to have someone feel passionate about them.
You also deserve to have great sex, and have someone completely turn you on. I don't think there is any thing that can spark chemistry. I think it is natural.
ON the other hand you must remember that the passion in a marriage dies a little as the years go buy, and it is extremely important that you are compatible with the person.
Sex is a very small part of a relationship unless one person feel deprived.
Like the judge always says " look deep before you leap"!
2007-01-15 09:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual attraction is an extremely important part of a successful marriage, second only to communication. If you don't feel it for eachother, it will be much easier to feel it for another party and that's when the trouble will start. If in a similar situation, I would seriously reconsider a commitment as strong and as permanent as marriage for fear of the potential damage that could be caused to this individual down the road. If the individual shares your dreams, they may also be willing to share these concerns with you as well.
2007-01-14 11:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by bobs*chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-07 10:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by dotcombust007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say it plays a major part because, infidelity usually ruins the marriage before anything else first and that can start in the "bedroom" between either spouse. If you're happy at home then you won't play outside the home. At first people will put sex in the marriage at about 80% and get burnt out before their first year anniversary, all they have in common is sex. No friendship, no communication, no respect, no faith. If you have all these things first believe me, sex will find it's way in there somewhere at about 40% and only get better with added years of bliss and happiness.
Keep in mind that some people will cheat on there spouse just because they want to and they are people who are not ready for marriage.
2007-01-07 10:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry the person if you're not attracted to him. It will be a HUGE mistake.
If you're being forced into this by your family, you need to stand up to them and not do it. Older generations had absolutely no expectations for good sex, which is why they have no problems encouraging their children to marry someone he/she isn't attracted to.
The reality is that in the past, men just went to prostitutes or in some cultures had mistresses. That is not an option today with AIDS and 40 different venereal diseases in the picture.
Today sex is very important and a man expects a woman to do more than lie there with her eyes closed hoping that it will be over soon.
2007-01-13 12:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the sexual aspect of marriage will come in time. It takes time to develop a close relationship. If you have doubts, why get married now?? Wait a couple years. What's the rush?
2007-01-14 10:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexual interest is important in a marriage their is no doubt about that. But if you are in love with the person then it shouldn't be that important. Don't get me wrong thought it is important but it isn't a life and death thing.
2007-01-07 10:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that providing for your family is the most important thing, yes sex is all so important, but think about it..if you partner becomes ill or something to that effect and can no longer have sex, what is going to keep your marriage going? Having a STRONG emotional and taking care of your family is the only thing you got going for you..
2007-01-07 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋