How do u brind your self estim back up?
2007-01-07 10:17:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
find someone who care about you , for you
2007-01-07 10:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
True self-esteem comes from helping others. My advice is that you find a way to help other people. Try doing a daily affirmations. Make a list of grattitude. Make a list of goals and check them off one at a time. There is however one thing I have learned, no self esteem is worse then low self-esteem. Give that some thought. At least you have some inclination of the fact that you have to work on it verses being completely oblivious and not caring. You are awesome and you can do it darling!!!!!
2007-01-07 10:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by renew69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I go out and help someone whether I feel they are better off than I am or not. It gives you something to look back on when you get into those periods of low self-esteem and helps other people in the process.
Love, Hope, Peace, & Christ Be With You,
Cal-el & Black Canary
2007-01-07 10:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a low esteem and i took the loner path up to my 18th, and although i lack sociality and it's hard for me to talk all the time about whatever, but because of the loner time i focused on art and music allot, wich quite some people look up to.
But i really suggest the happy thought thingie if you can,
2007-01-07 10:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by bedonstall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will make you feel better about yourself than helping others. Figure out a way to help or volunteer and consistently be of service to others. The change is gradual but you will notice positive effects within the month.
2007-01-07 10:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I look in the mirror and do the double finger point like Isaac on the TV show "The Love Boat and say "you are incredibly good looking..........there should be a law against being this sexy".
I hope this helps, angel.
2007-01-07 10:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My self esteem is always low. That is normal for me.
My therapist says I should think "nourishing thoughts" but I find that very difficult because I cannot believe them.
If you can think nourishing thoughts about yourself - that you are good at things, that people like you etc, try that
2007-01-07 10:20:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go out for a walk, get some fresh air and look at your situation with a clean mind, and see what works in your life focus on those elements and see how you can follow that success into other elements of your life.
Good Luck
2007-01-07 10:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by chrisisworking 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know myself and some people are going to point out that you spelt esteem wrong but ignore it
2007-01-07 10:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, right now, I eat. But I am working on it though
2007-01-07 10:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by I love the flipflops 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sit on the church steps and watch the people go by...
2007-01-07 10:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋