2007-01-07 10:05:39 · 29 answers · asked by toamassosso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends on what you mean by hanging out. Is it on the phone, computer, do you work together, or in person. I have friends that i have known for years but i don't get to see them because our lives are so busy so "we" hang out sometimes on the computer. And one of my friends has a baby that is like 2 yrs old and I havn't seen him since he was just a baby. But we hang out on here everyday at least for a while. No i see nothing wrong unless you are alone together and still had feelings for each other. If you are still friends, I would like to know what happened?
2007-01-07 10:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one question for you...why are you asking? If you have to ask you know it is wrong, the reason why we ask these questions of integrity is because we want to hear someone or friends agree with us so we can have a good feeling about what we are doing, even if it is wrong and we know it. Let us turn this picture around, how would you feel if it were your wife hanging around her x-boyfriend? Listen to me Zack...move on before someone gets hurt.
2007-01-07 18:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on everyone involved.
You two may still get along, as many ex's do.
What does her husband think ?
Personally, I won't be to happy.
Do you have a gf or wife? What does she think?
Are you single and hangin with the girl because you're looking for something?
This is something you'll have to figure out on your own. The answer crew really won't be much help.
Best of luck
2007-01-07 18:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If you really had any real love for her you will let her go because you want the best for her - and in this case the best means leaving her to her husband and yuo getting out of the picture. Real love means making the hard descisions that are in the best interests of the other person.
2007-01-07 18:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Babloo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends and hanging out with both of them, that's fine. Hanging out alone with her is simple inappropriate, even if nothing is going on. It breeds distrust in even the most secure relationship. Place yourself in his situation. Honestly, how would you feel about your wife hanging out with an old boyfriend?
2007-01-07 18:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep..... what are looking for????
She is the past, get on with the future.
She is an ex and you are looking for something else??????RIght!!
People may talk and get the wrong idea.
You do not want to cause trouble.
Why is she hanging where you are hanging?????
Trouble in paradise????
Stay away from her... bad news......
2007-01-07 18:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say yes, her husband may not be very understanding that you are just friends. He will make her very uncomfortable. So better for her, to stay away husbands are not very understanding when it comes to men and women friendships. Good luck, Wish it was different..
2007-01-07 18:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by carpathian3030 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It isnt wrong at all, as long as you two have made ammends with eachother and arnt holding any grudges against eachother anymore.
Of course, he husband might have a problem with it though...so you never know.
2007-01-07 18:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know my husband would have a problem with me hanging out with ANYONE that may have been a potential suitor before we got married. so i wouldn't do it. and then i know i would have a problem with him hanging out with any of his ex-girlfriends at anytime.
2007-01-07 18:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there are no feelings left over, it could be okay. Unless her husband (or someone new in your life) has a problem with it. They should come first.
2007-01-07 18:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋