Anyone else here lost a baby etc..ever get hurt at the sight of all those pregnant woman and moaning ones...i lost one in july(ectopic) and since have been so depressed i hate the thought of it could have been me blah blah...why is this not leaving my mind?i feel terrible every second of the day all my thought are pregnancy,babies,pregnancy...My husband is away for 4 months service so there will be no baby making do you think this is contributeing to my stress?
2007-01-07 09:17:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am obsessed i think its so horrible i cant stop it.I had them lines it was too good to be true though.I feel like im going crazy i really do.
2007-01-07 09:25:14 · update #1
I know how you feel. My Dr. told me my fallopian tubes are blocked because of endometriosis. I was also told I can't have a child without invitro fertilization. I cried for days, I cried so badly that my lungs hurt. I see people who have children and don't treat them well and it makes me so angry. I yearn to hold my own baby and smell that baby smell. I hope every month that a miracle happend and I'm pregnant. Try again I know someone who had 2 ectopic pregnancies and finally had a beautiful baby boy. Good luck to you!
2007-01-07 12:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by hailesellase 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately. You need to look at the positive side even if it is really hard to. You WILL have blessings come into your life. You just need to be patient. Take this as a test on your character. You can overcome it and come out stronger and a better person for it, because now you will be more sympathetic. Go to counseling,
take a class or take up a hobbie. Get your mind out of the same place it has been for the last few months. Talk to your friends and family more.
2007-01-07 09:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, while I have not yet lost one, I have not yet gotten pregnant. We have been trying for 5 months. I yearn to see those two pink lines, and worry about becoming obsessed. Your husband being away is probably not helping as you miss him, and having a bun in the oven would maybe bring you some comfort. It will happen for you!
2007-01-07 09:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have alot of stress thinking about it all.. but i feel the sameway i lost one the sameway in dec 2006 and my friend got pregnant in may 06 and i;m with her everyday and still think about the fact that that should of been me and i hate that i do it but i don't know what elso to do ... 4 months will come very soon and then you can try again and i hope it all works out my husband and i are going to try soon again good luck i hope it works out for you....
2007-01-07 09:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Steph24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry about your loss
2007-01-07 09:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋