I have feelings for my girlfriends best friend. I used to like her and she used to like me, but now i don't know what to do. I think I'm starting to fall for her again. I still have feelings for my girlfriend, but she treats me badly. I've never been unfaithfull before at all.
2007-01-07 08:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by shaun_hemp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she treats you badly, sort that out first, try and fix it and if it doesn't work finish with her. Don't pursue a relationship with someone else (especially her best friend) while you are still with her, regardless of how she treats you.
Also go and make an ice-cream sunday, because that fixes all problems
2007-01-09 05:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that your relationship with your girlfriend is ending then it is far better to end it with her now then cheat on her. It's not fair to string her along if you don't like her that much. If you break up with her dont date her friend straight away, that's really mean. You should explain to the friend that you need to wait a while before you jump into anything to be fair on your ex. Don't be a jerk and think about her feelings. Do you even know if this "friend" likes you anymore?
2007-01-07 17:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on someone who treats you badly! Have respect for yourself FIRST. If she treats you badly and you allow it by staying with her, what sort of message is that sending her? I don't have any advice on what to do about your girlfriend's best friend, but you should NOT let someone treat you badly, period. Good luck!
2007-01-07 16:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your girlfriend treats you badly then she doesnt deserve you. you should find happinesss with someone who will love everything about you. you have probably fallen for her cos you can see shes everything you havent got in your girlfriend. just dont be unfaithful. tell your girlfriend the whole truth but tell the girl you like first what you are thinking. dont stay in an unhappy relationship just because you are afraid of change.good luck,
2007-01-07 17:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent happy with your girlfriend then its best for both your sakes to end it. But does she genuinely treat you badly, or are you picking faults, because you like her friend.?
you make a move on her friend, and you'll destroy their friendship. Where's your morals.
2007-01-07 19:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you are being treated badly then get rid of the problem life is to short to deal with someone that does not treat you the way that you should and deserve to be treated. And if something come up with her friend she should not be mad because she had her chance and blew it.
2007-01-07 17:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by moeski 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finish your girlfriend if you like someone else. its not fair on either of you if your in a relationship and you like somebody else. i wouldnt go for her mate either, if it was the other way around and your mrs fancied your best mate how would you feel? think how you would like to be treated before doing anything - remember karma!
2007-01-07 16:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by chris p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you need to keep away from both and make a fresh start with someone other than these two
2007-01-07 17:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Up With Gf And Be With The Friend..
2007-01-07 16:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by amber 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell your girlfriend that shes ruined your relationship and cry on the friend shoulder ,,,, hey presto sympathy shag.
2007-01-07 17:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by sbwrw 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋