2007-01-07 08:35:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no easy way, their are always knock backs. First tell a close trusted friend to get that support there for you. Then move on to telling your parents, maybe writing a letter to them and collecting leaflets on info on gays so as they understand better, go away for a few days to stay with your friend, obviously telling them that your going away for a few days. Then when you go back, they should have calmd down, accepted it, have a good chat with them, let them ask their questions and answer them as honestly and truthfully as you can. This then gets you their support on telling the rest of your family.
Goodluck.
2007-01-07 09:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came out two weeks ago ^_^
I told my parents that I am in love with a girl. I think that is a better way to start the conversation instead of telling them you are a lesbian. Cause, if you have real feelings for somebody, they can't say you don't have them. It is an emotional thing. And I was very very happy (for 2 months, hopping and singing) So I suggest you telling them your emotional things/feelings. They can't say that this isn't true.
good luck. Hope the people you are going to tell are ok with it!
2007-01-07 20:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extremely? there's no hassle-free way. there are going to be be those that are fantastic with it. (your real associates) and those who will hate you for it. (your pretend associates) and it wont be hassle-free telling kinfolk that they are going to by no ability have blood grandchildren. even as i presumed i turned right into a lesbian.. and were given up the nerve to inform me,, i lost many associates, saved some, made many more effective. in spite of the undeniable fact that the fam. become fairly disillusioned. they basically did not comprehend what to assert or imagine. my mom and pa are very religious. so i might want to commence consisting of your individuals. you'll defiantly locate out who your real associates are.
2016-12-28 08:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online. Like On a blog or something. But to your family and/or friends in person, make sure they're not homophobic and then if they're not, just come straight out and tell 'em. If you need help with it practice in the mirror or write it down on papper or cards.
2007-01-07 08:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sapphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell the people who is most close to you... if you cant do it on your own have one of you close gay friends or even your girlfriend be with you jus take it slow. Be perpared to answer question... but it also depend who you are trying to tell family or friends. It might be easier to tell your friends over family. Also Be Firm and straight forward. If you are serious they will take you like that.
2007-01-07 08:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send out some invitations to your coming out party, that way, anyone who shows up is obligated to bring a present.
:)
2007-01-07 08:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give the closet door a hard shove
2007-01-07 08:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by harry hotspur 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply move away and get new friends. That is essentially what I did.
2007-01-07 08:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by John16 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Open door, step out.
2007-01-07 08:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by bandit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just do it if someone gives you crap about it that's their problem...why would you want their approval anyways?
2007-01-07 08:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by IndeXed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋