I really need a true opinion- about 6 weeks ago me and my bf had unprotected sex but he DID NOT come. Now, I was extremely stressed out in December bc of College finals (i had anxiety attacks and chest pains and even went to the doctor). Now problem is....i never got my period in the month of December or even now. Do you honestly think theres a GOOD chance I am pregnant or do you think I missed my period due to stress??
PS- I know a pregnancy test is the way to know for sure but first I want someones honest opinion..like what are the odds of becoming pregnant if the partner doesnt come??
2007-01-07 08:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lauren C 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I hope this doesn't cause another attack...but yes, you can STILL get pregnant without your bf "finishing".
BUT, you certainly can miss periods due to stress and worry, especially over the fear of pregnancy.
I've had it happen myself...scared me to death...it was a vicious circle...I was worried about becoming pregnant...missed a period and kept worrying. Turns out my stress over the POTENTIAL unwanted pregnancy caused me to miss 2 periods! Once I settled down..I got my period.
Please, try to settle down...you must relax to get this period back!
Your body is all tensed up...causing all sorts of problems. You can literally convince yourself that you're pregnant...even when you're not. Been there, done that!
I think you should take a pregnancy test to rule out that possibility. You'll calm down immediately when you know that your panic caused all this.
Good Luck!
2007-01-07 08:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by weebleswobble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still quite a lot, he could have released semen without him knowing himself... It is very possible that you're pregnant. I think you should definately try a pregnancy test or go to your doctor.
Never ever have unprotected sex if you don't want a baby and also there's the risk of STI's, that could be another reason why you missed your period. If the Pregnancy test doesn't show up + you've either got an STI or you're very stressed.
Good luck.
2007-01-07 08:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well theres always a chance of pregnancy when u have sex even when the guy doesn't come. but because of finals and all the stress ur cycle could be all wacked out. give another couple of weeks, then take a pregnancy test just to make sure. good luck!!
2007-01-07 08:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by brianne_marcusmaggiore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not want to hear this you a woman can get pregnant even of the man doesn't ***. As for specifc odds i don't know, but it's possible. Of course it could be stress and you could be worrying over nothing. Like you said yourself, a test is the only way to know for sure.
good luck!!!
P.S. I didn't put those stars there myself. Big Brother must have done that. Is 'ejaculate' ok for the censors?
2007-01-07 08:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by shy_voo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
still a pregnancy test will solve alot of this but, i think it is possible. some of the most powerful ejaculate is pre ***, he doesnt have to really *** all the way in oreder for you to be pregnant. and yes stress is the number one cause of speratic missed periods. i think that you adding to your stress by not knowing for sure. get a test and at least know if you are or arent, that way if your not all you have to do is relax and if you are you have to start planning on what to do now. good luck
2007-01-07 08:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be either. The best thing is to have a pregnancy test.
Sometimes even that the partner feels he has not come there may be a small amount of sperm that gets through undetected.
So do not take chances.
Hope you are in the 50% probability that you are not pregnant.
2007-01-07 08:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not ejaculate, there is a very slim chance you could be pregnant. The most logical answer is that you missed your period due to stress. This can most certainly make you skip your period. It's happened to me before. If you are still worried about being pregnant, do a pregnancy test. But in all honesty, it is most likely due to stress.
2007-01-07 08:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lauren, go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test now. If you are pregnant and you wait too long, you will have less choices available.
Also, I hate to tell you this but guys lie about "not coming" all the time. Think about it- what's in it for them if they can't come? Nothing.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-07 08:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Not so looney afterall 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sperm is released in pre come.... not just with ejaculation. You can be tested a planned parenthood... or go get a pregnancy test from dollar bills ( 70th Grreenfield) or a drug store. Go find out.
2007-01-07 10:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by moonheim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never have unprotected sex, if you have unprotected sex expect that you will get pregnant.
It doesnt mater if he didnt come, there are thousands of sperm on the tip of the penis.
yes- take a pregnancy test.
2007-01-07 08:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋