how often do you have sex in a week, we have been married for 3 years, we are 27 and 28 years old and i feel we only have sex like maybe 5 times a month, i would like it at least 3 times a week how do i go about getting this?
2007-01-07 08:00:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a tough situation....
I have been married 4 years and I'm lucky if I get it once a week.
I have been in this situation with my husband, here are a few things you have to understand. When you talk to him don't put alot of pressure on him to perform more often. This may give him inadequacy issues that will only frustrate you more. If you talk to him about this and he fails to comply don't let your frustration out in a negative way, this will create resentment between the two of you and that isn't going to help the sex life at all. Understand that things naturally slow in a relationship weather it be b/c of time spent together or outside influences like stress. you will have your ups and downs and you should learn to except that. And lastly if you attempt to seduce him and he declines there may be bigger issues at hand talk to him about what they might be. let him know that you are willing to help him work through whatever it is so that both of you can be happy again
2007-01-07 08:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by candi k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we were first married it was non stop and our friends would call us "rabbits" I have now been married for almost 20yrs and am 39, honestly we still go like "rabbits" On average i would say at least 3 times/week. My suggestion on how to get this, flirt, make time for urselves, put things on the back burner and make ursleves "come" first.. hehe. Talk to ur partner and see if they want the same thing. Explain to them where u stand on this topic, perhaps ur both wanting it more often. Communication is huge in any relationship, no one can read our minds we have to let them know what we r thinking. Good luck!
2007-01-07 16:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by snowbunny67ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anywhere from 2-4 times a week. We've been married 4-1/2 years.
2007-01-07 16:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Am I. Incognito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for almost 10 years, we started out like rabbits, then things cooled down a bit right after the kids came along. I sat him down about 2 years ago and told him what I needed, at least 4 times a week. He was happy to comply!! Just talk to him about it and mixed things up a bit. Good Luck.
2007-01-07 16:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by maryc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband works all the time so e are lucky to have it 3 times a wk. Back when we were dating 3 times a day. I am not that old I am still young we could still have that if he didnt work all the time oh well some is better than none.
2007-01-07 16:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for four years and still have sex everyday. He is 33 and I am 23, sometimes he needs some persuading. Most the time it doesn't take a whole lot to change his mind, I just grab him and start kissing him pulling him toward the bedroom....
2007-01-07 20:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by guest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 times week! 9th years total years together married for 5
2007-01-07 16:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Saude! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 52, he's 57 and we don't have sex weekly or monthly and I'm trying to hold onto at least a few times yearly. Other than this, he is the greatest husband a woman could ask for!!!
2007-01-07 16:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by JanJan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby and i have been married for 10 years, we have sex about 4-5 times a week now, more than when we were first married, try telling him you want it. maybe he's waiting for you to just initiate ir. sometimes men want that to feel as if they are wanted. try it.
2007-01-07 23:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by ccll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, prior to the last month my husband and i were having 'fun' every day...sometimes twice a day. He started to tell me he was too tired. I will be moving out in Feb., so since this business has started it has only been about once per week. Not good for me....but I will deal with it.
2007-01-07 18:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by KaLee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋