am getting married, so would like to know...
no porn please
2007-01-07 07:58:35 · 3 answers · asked by mega 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Try stretching your hymen....that will definitely help! Insert one finger into your vagina and move it from side to side. When you can do this without any pain, try 2 fingers and so on. Also, masturbation also helps to stretch the hymen as does having your BF/fiance finger you. When the time comes, make sure you're well lubricated either on your own or with something like KY jelly and RELAX...that's one of the most important things!! If you're nervous, you'll be tense and that makes it worse. I assume your fiance knows your a virgin so he should know to go slow and be gentle. Do all of this and your first time doesn't have to be painful at all....mine wasn't. Good luck and Congrats on your marriage!
2007-01-07 09:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some research on clitoral stimulation. You'll find out much about how things start to loosen up if it's done correctly. Relax about it and take your time.
2007-01-07 08:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Arius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow and easy, best to be quite arroused first but i gaurentee that the first time isn't pretty nor as much fun as it will be later. just RELAX if anything thats the best advise i can give, it will hurt/be uncomfortable but i promise the more your into it the better it will be. congradulations & good luck
2007-01-07 08:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋